ok well me and my bf are having a hard time and he keeps sayin that I dnt love him anymor and that i dnt care but i do and i keep tellin him that and ppl @ skewl keep tellin him stuff that isnt tru but he wnt tell me wat and he keeps swerin @ my auntie coz she wants him 2 tell me and im really confused and depressed and im afraid that im gonna cut myself i really love him and i dnt want to break up with him i dnt no what to do i really want to call him but i dnt no wat he'll say i cant talk 2 him or anyone wen im lyk this plz i need sumone to tell me it'll b ok
2006-07-28 19:04:37 · 9 answers · asked by â?¥ ~bLu$H~ â?¥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Thanx 4 ur answers i actually went and talked to him and we worked it out
2006-07-28 20:16:07 · update #1
first ..
If ppl at school tell him wrong stuff rumors and he fails to pass them on then ,, he is being nice because they are just hurtful. Tell him he can tell your Auntie or mom and she will decide if they are worth passing on.
Him swearing at your Auntie shows he has a few issues to deal with.
You wanting to cut your self shows you have a few issues to deal with.
As neither of you is ready for a serious relationship, try to use the time together to just have fun chillin' or to help each other feel better about your lives.
Later you can talk about the kind of relationship you each need and want. You may be surprised if you are both honest.
2006-07-28 20:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuttin urself wont solve anything so PLEASE DONT!!! ya'll should talk,. tell him to listen to you first and tell him how you really feel about him if he truely loves u he'll listen to u if not then,.. dont even bother if he believes his friends or whoever more than he believes u then that means he doesnt trust u look u cant love someone if u cant trust them,. i know its really hard for you cus u love him but sometimes u have to let go and move on,. it'll take time,..
and im just wondering how & when did he started feeling that way,..that you dont love him anymore did u do something,?.. well if you dont he's da one who got issues,..
i know ur goin though so much right now ,.. but cuttin urself wont do **** so try not to,. dont do that cus of a guy it aint worth it,.. u love him a lot but u gotta luv urself more this time,. think about it again and before u do & say something think about the consequences first, goodluck*
2006-07-28 19:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by yumi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you either need to make him talk to you and work things out or you just need to break up. If he won't talk, it isn't worth it. You don't need a guy who isn't open with you. If he does talk, listen to what he has to say and try to work it out the best you can. Good luck with this problem and remember, either way, it will be okay. If you break up, another guy will come along.
2006-07-28 19:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by first_baseman2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing. dont hurt urself.
its not worth inflicting pain on urself for d sake of a bf.
and next, surely, u r big enough to face him and tell him dat wat they say at skewl is a load of rubbish.
u 2 surely kno each other well enough to talk things out.
i dont really understand d prob bout ur aunt, sry.
but believe me, u'll b fine.
all the best.
2006-07-28 19:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutting yourself won't resolve the problem of why he won't talk. Be good to yourself. If he isn't treating you well he isn't worth your trouble. There are a lot of nice guys out there who will treat you with respect and communicate how they feel. Give it time, it will happen.
2006-07-28 19:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know exatly what your say but tell him you love him so much and you want to say togather forever and dont even think about cuting yourself
i could not tell what your where saying but i am here 24/7 to help people with their problems so give me an email if you need more help.
abastas_and_me@yahoo.com
2006-07-29 07:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anybody who makes u wanna cut urself doesnt relly luv you...u deserve better..surround urself with positve ppl..obviosly hes being selfish and doesnt luv u the way u luv him..
2006-07-28 20:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by shana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f sounds insecure. Don't hurt yourself over him. I promise it'll be OKAY! Be good to yourself.
2006-07-28 19:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by blastabuelliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats now that everything is ok...i just wanted to tell you that your picture is really cool=DD
2006-07-28 20:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by alexandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋