2006-07-28 18:59:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NO. The biggest problem with kids of today are that they are confusing finding someone of their own sex attractive as being gay/ lesbian. It is absolutely normal to look at the same sex and admire the way they look. Even have a hint of attractiveness toward them. It is purely a gesture that you like the way they are and envy them. Don't clutter your thinking with the fact that it is gay. It is not. Everyone goes thru this phase in all stages of life. I have been married for 10 years and have a daughter who is 9. She asked me the same question. I am sick of the media convincing our children that they may be gay/lesbian because they feel this way. My goodness! I myself may look at another woman and think to myself..."She is really pretty". Does it make me a lesbian or bi-sexual? H#LL NO!! I wish all parents would teach their children this, but they don't. That is why there are so many claiming to be gay/lesbian these days, even the real young ones. It is sad and pathetic. People need to get a grip!! That is MY opinion of it anyway.
2006-07-28 19:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks have a lot to do with it. But not necessarily arrogant. Males are pretty much visual, we are triggered by visual stimulation. Thats just the way it is. You can't make yourself attracted to somebody you are not attracted to, and you can only do a little about making yourself unattracted to somebody you are attracted to. Superficial, yes, shallow, unbelievably shallow. Business meeting talking over real serious stuff, lots of money at stake, all the men totally occupied by it, but let a pretty secretary in an attractive outfit walk into the room and business is pushed to second place. Thats just the way it is. Actually I think we humans do real well on compartmentalizing the sexual component of our lives, we learn how to delay actualizing it. Pretty gay guys always get invited out, of course they do, ugly or overweight or dorky ones don't, that is one reason why I have noticed most gay guys do the best they can with what they have, most gay guys will do at least some exercise and sensible diet to look as good as possible, and dress well too, and get good haircuts. Straight guys often drive their gfs/wives crazy by reverting to slobs, but you cannot get away with that in the gay world.
2016-03-27 05:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. First of all gay is something that you are or aren't and if you doubt it, then you're not. Just try to stay comfortable.
Second, it depends on what you think of him. Would you date/have sex with him? HomoSEXUALITY. It's a matter of sex. Also, would you marry a man if you found him attractive. It's all in the way you see it. Sit down and think a while.
2006-07-28 19:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so...
now, if u like this guy and u'd like to be his boyfriend, that would be called homosexuality
But it's ok for u to say that some guy is good looking, it's not big deal
Girls do that a lot, specaily my best friend, she is always saying: this girl is very pretty and she got big boobs, and she is completely straight... so, don't worry
2006-07-28 19:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.. .being able to see whether or not another person is attractive has nothing to do with whether or not you want to have sex with that person... I find both men and women attractive, but am not interested in sleeping with women.
2006-07-28 19:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by walkietalkiethree2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I look at women's cleavage, does that make me a lesbian? Probably not. You may have bi-tendencies, but unless you act on them and don't date women, you'd likely be considered straight.
2006-07-28 19:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is okay to think another man is attractive. If he makes you horny that is different.
2006-07-28 19:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes your a big fag & will start dropping to your knees & unzipping guys uncontrolably!!!only joking i was curious - tried but could not get it up
2006-07-28 20:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by glen e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, just means that you admire a nice body as much as anyone else does
2006-07-28 19:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jake B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it just makes you secure in your manhood.
2006-07-28 19:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋