I was in a long distance relationship for a little over a year and became pregnant with twins. I have a feeling he was cheating on me during that time. He would say he was tired and going to bed and then call a certain girl and when I would drive 4 hours to see him he would call me see where I was at then call her and no phone calls the time I was down there and when I would leave he would call me then call her and the calls would start again. I'm not for certain that anything was going on though. He moved for me and our girls leaving behind his friends and the many girls he was talking to that were "good" friends from high school. Now he deletes his call logs and messages. I try to do everything to make him happy but we haven't even had a conversation for 4 days now we just come home and then go to bed. I cant trust him but i'm trying.I don't know if he wants to be with me or if he's just with me because of our girls?
2006-07-28 18:57:48 · 3 answers · asked by abkcook 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i want to say first of all..you have been blessed for having your twins they will bring unconditional love....and strength ..to go on...alot of couple stay together because of "the kids"...and that's when we be miserable in the relationship...and we become the maid of the house...if he was happy in the relationship he will be making love to you everyday..and treating you like a princess ..you will be going out together as a family..he would not go hours without talking to you..the phone calls he makes..is telling you something that you don't want to hear.....He is cheating trust me...he is also probably telling the other..i don't love her I'm just around for the kids....i mean he probably love you because you are the mother of his children...but he is not in love with you....when you ask him if he is happy in your relationship..he is not going to tell you NO..he has to answer yes...just like a man will never admit into cheating. i wish you luck with everything and the best of everything ...talk to the girls ...and go out with them..and have fun with them..they will grow up quick...
2006-07-28 19:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by gengen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he says he still happy he could be seeing a counsler because he is a first time father or he didn't plan to have kids and he is cheating on you tey to see if his changed his behavior since then for example:If he was happy and cheerful before you got pregnent and now he's all secretive than he could be cheating try to talk to him and ask him if he is avoiding the Question than he is for sure Cheating okay. I hope I was of help to you today
2006-07-28 19:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by alfred v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe this man likes to control. If you want to be under his tumb for the rest of your life, then go on like that and let him abuse you. If you cannot trust him, there is your answer. Don't. You probably can do better
2006-07-28 19:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋