what would the reason be for a married older guy to make it an effort to pursue a younger female, knowing that he is married with children? midlife crisis maybe?
2006-07-28 18:41:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It means they are looking for easy sex. I've read over your previous questions about him. I really hope you have the backbone to do what is right. What kind of doctor is he? If he is a psychiatrist or psychologist, he needs to be reported. It is too bad that you think so little of yourself that you would be suckered in by his systematic and predatory attack. What makes you think you would be so special to him in any way except sex? It is obvious he knows the game well. Find a healthy young man closer to your own age to stroke your ego. Good luck. Don't make a mistake. Don't get hurt or hurt others.
2006-07-28 19:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Midlife crisis, boredom, unfulfilled life. When people have affairs there are no real ties or responsibilities just the anticipation of heated sex like before they were married. Kids, house payment, responsibilities, and same old routine zap a married couple of energy needed to keep their marriage heated. Plus guys just like girls. I don't have affairs but the day I stop looking at or flirting with girls will be the day I die. Women are Gods most beautiful creation
2006-07-28 18:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by blastabuelliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Midlife Crisis...You see, men don't plan on turning unpredictable. It happens when they look in the mirror or in the eyes of their grandchildren and see themselves as old men. They have, up to this point, believed they were 25-year-old boys....so younger women makes them feel special and young....being with younger women makes them feel like they are 25 again.
2006-07-28 18:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first reply hit it right on the nose. I am going to tell you...I am a man in his 40's who has been married for over 20 years. Kids come around...sex goes away...fast and the attention the wife gives to her husband goes away too. I am sure that the wives still love their husbands, but their priorities change to satisfying the husband to caring for the kids and house. Most men are scumbags when it comes to fidelity...including me. And if they deny it...they are probably lying.
The first girlfriend on the side I had was after we had our first child and I was 29. My girlfried was also 29. That relationship last 3 years until my girlfriend put her foot down and said me or her... Did I have strong feelings for my wife, yes. Did I have strong feelings for my girlfriend, yes but not as strong...I mean I had a son, my house, my finances...too much to lose.
Two children later with my wife I went astray again...This woman knew the game and I got no where with her. So I promised myself I would be good....far from the tructh. I went astray again...met a divorced woman with kids who was very pretty and very much into sex. This relationship lasted about 5 years...and included "buisnes trips" to nice places. Same thing...my girlfriend gave me the me or her" choice. due to the kids and finances guess what.....I stayed married. so a few years pass and guess what...again I am going astray with an absolutely gorgeous woman almost 1/2 my age. this girlfried is like a woman I never really had before...she actually listens to me and remembers everything I say. She is very smart and probably the most beautiful woman I dated...ever. I think I am drawn to this girlfried mosre than the others and if I wound up divorced i would prbably date this mone for a while. Do I want to get divorced...part of me says actually says yes...not becuas I don't love my wife, but becuase we are just like roommates....., but the stability of the kids make me say no. Now that I have been married a while the financial thing really doesn't take precedence over the kids.
The women I dated, including this girlfried, have repeatedly told me outright I am extremely attractive (which my wife rarely says), althouhg I find it very hard to belive. i just consider myself average. I do however, pay attention to women and present myself as available, which I think women like. I really wish my would have given me 15 minutes of sex a night and this never would have happened.
now one thing I must say is I think deep down inside wives who are cheatred on have suspicion and an inkling....but also unless they are 110% do not want to leave their style of life....
hope this helped you....and remember...all men, when it comes to marriage commitment and fidelity are pretty much scumbags.
2014-03-15 18:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dave F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 05:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by larusch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly he looking for a piece of a s s !! That`s the truth!!! You want to see him run tell him or who ever he`s seeing that there pregnant. He`ll be out of there in no time and won`t bother you again!!!
2006-07-28 18:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No morals? Doesn't care about his wife's feelings? He's horny? The list goes on...
I'm pretty sure you know the answers!
2014-08-21 11:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by Annabelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self esteem issues, problems in current relationships, or they're just scumbags looking for anything that looks good on two legs.
Some people are just low.
2006-07-28 19:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...just stupidity on both parts, him for dreaming it'll ever be more than a one night stand and her for even thinking about it, knowing there is a family involved.
2006-07-28 18:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A MAN IS ONLY AS GOOD AS HIS OPTIONS...
DO YOU THINK HE WILL EVER LEAVE HER FOR YOU?
WHY WOULD YOU WANT HIM TO?MEN DO THIS **** FOR STUPID *** REASONS...I GOT CHEATED ON BECAUSE I NEVER GOT MY HAIR DONE ... I DID IT MYSELF... BULLSHIT ...SELFISHNESS AND STUPIDITY
2006-07-28 18:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by mspussycat6305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋