we've met only once and we started acting like we were dating like, holding hands and i would lean on him and we would just hug each other randomly, and we held hands for about an hour, because we met at six flags through friends... is it just lust because my parents are divorcing and i feel i want to be loved, or should i go farther, its just so confusing for me
2006-07-28 18:29:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think right now this is a hard time for you with ur parents grtting divorce, an i think this guy is good for you, help keep what happen off ur mind, this could turn out for the best for you, stop stressing but no matter what be there for ur mom,
2006-07-28 18:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think its a lust, maybe its just a timing that your parents getting divorced and you met this guy... actually maybe a good timing so you wont be so down to what was happening to your family because you have someone to lean on... go on with your life.. your parents have their own life too... we cant always depends on our parents... make your own happiness.. if you think you will be happy with this guy and if he loves you back be thankful for his presence... that way you can have someone with you in times of troubles... just dont show to him that you only need him because your parents are getting divorced but most of all show to him that you love him and that what happen to your family wont affect how you feel for him.... dont think its a lust.. just think that its love and thank God for sending him to you in time of your worries... be happy...
2006-07-29 01:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well could be your just doing it unconsciously to forget about the pain of your parents divorce. But then again it could be the real thing. Just give it a chance. Im not saying you sleep with the guy. Try hanging out with him and try to get to know him better and go from there. Im sorry about your parents divorce but try not to blame yourself and know that they are adults and although they have separate lives now, they love you unconditionally.
2006-07-29 01:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very fact that you are considering that is has to do with your parents situation is a clear sign that is the reason. You have actually answered your own question! Wow, you should get points for this man. I take it you are young, slow down and take your time. When it's real there will be no doubt. You are wiser than you think.
2006-07-29 02:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by dooder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's lust, and it doesn't have anything to do with your parents, it has to do with being young and biology. You'd best be careful, and take your time to see if the guy is worth giving yourself to. Warning: if you're as young as you sound, many guys are interested in only one thing. Don't let him take advantage of you, and practice safe sex!
2006-07-29 01:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are looking for love. Girls act out sexually when their Father doesn't pay much attention to them. You will only end up hurting yourself. Focus on school and the gym. Former elite gymnast here!!
2006-07-29 02:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to feel secure and loved.
2006-07-29 01:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋