Question of curiosity!!!!!
Is there anyone out there that's in a relationship
that only has sex with their spouse because they chose not to fool around, & finding it complicated being aroused due to the longivity of the relationship But yet the quanity & quality of love is unmeasureable?
I don't need help, I just wanna know.
2006-07-28 18:22:33 · 10 answers · asked by DUMMY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
But yet the quanity & quality of love is unmeasureable?
what in gods name is that ?
2006-07-28 18:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity right after my 16th birthday to my boyfriend he was a 16 yr. old virgin as well. That was 10 years ago. when I was 17 I had his child, at 18 I married him. It's been 8 years. We have never been with anyone else other then each other, we have never cheated on each other, and also have a 3 year old son. We keep things interesting with each other always trying new things and never get board. We are very open and honest with each other. I cannot speak for him, but as far as me, I couldn't imagine my self with anyone else. I have no problems or complications being aroused. Every time it gets better. We know all the right spots and places to please each other, and learn new things all the time :)
2006-07-29 01:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a strange sort of way, I think I understand your question. I can't say the answer though, because my love for my wife is measurable. We've been married long enough that the arousal level on both sides takes a little effort, so we don't even try!
2006-07-29 01:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a relationship of 23 yrs of which we've been married for 18 yrs where I choose not to fool around and there are no complications (^.^)
2006-07-29 01:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then the problem is not the longivity of the relationship. There might be something wrong with the...You know what....or could be...they need more foreplay...or role playing???
2006-07-29 01:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. It is perfectly normal to be aroused when you are in contact with others. As the saying goes; " nothing wrong with looking up the merchandise.". It gets complicated when one is tempted to handle it. There are still loyal and and faithful people. Aren't you one ?
2006-07-29 01:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people with good relations should recognize that it is quite normal to get familiar with the person you have been with for so many years. the only thing each one can do to the relationship is think about the reasons why you fell for him/her from the start that made you married this person. and that would include the sexual part of it.
2006-07-29 01:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by issa2169 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get a girl like mine and see the loyalty that she exhibits, then you feel obligated not to f*ck around w/some skank. Other girls are sluts anyways.
2006-07-29 01:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your married, its the whole idea of spending the rest of your life with the person and not breaking the love and trust of the marriage. there is no need to break it if you love that person.
2006-07-29 01:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by wmichael.harvey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that describes it pretty well. Lustful feelings change over time, but morph into something different, better.
2006-07-29 06:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by turtle girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋