okay here goes... i have 3 guys that want to be with me right now one that i had a really bad relationship with but still love, one that left me for another girl but i told him if he ever wanted to try again to let me know and when things didnt work he asked for me back, and the other i just met and spent alittle bit of time with... done things with recently... all in the same day ( today ) they all tell me they want me what do i do here? anyway i go im letting someone down right?? omg this is so hard for me. i dont want to make the wrong choice im confused
2006-07-28 18:20:42 · 12 answers · asked by okangeljenny23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd say NONE of the ABOVE! Dang girl?? Don't you have more pride and respect for yourself than to let guys walk over you like that? The first guy you had a bad relationship with.....why would you want to go back to that??? The second guy.....YOU told him he could come back after he's finished "playing" with another girl?? Why would you want him back.....tell him to take a hike, he'll just keep doing the same crap, because you let him once, my guess is you'll let him do it again. And loser number 3....sounds like he went a little too far with considering you 2 just met. He needs to be a man and treat you like a lady! Not expect you to put out.....what a jerk! Remember this, a real man is interested in getting to know you, not wanting to get into your pants without even taking you on a first date. You need to find one of these men and kick all the others out to the curb. Be single for a while and decide what you really want in a man (not "boy") and out of a relationship instead of rushing into meaningless relationships where you will only get hurt more.
2006-07-28 18:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. if he left you for another girl, he'll leave you again. Respect yourself. Don't allow yourself to be someone's "back up" girl.
B. What kind of bad relationship? You may still love him but if you have a bad relationship a future with him isn't probably a good idea.
C. It's not fair to guy number three either.
D. I seriously think you need some alone time to figure yourself out.
2006-07-28 18:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by MysteriousStranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow this carefuly going back on ex's is never a good idea always try to find the new guys bc x's tend to never change they say they have and act it for a week or 2 then it all comes unglued go with the new guy tell the other 2 that he asked 1st...and he was the better choice of the 3 for an obviose reason they should understand
2006-07-28 18:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by alex h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. sounds like you have a history with guys that dog you out.
2. you need to leave all 3 alone.
3. get yourself together and seek the advice of a counselor to learn why you attract dirt bags, and why you insist on putting up with their garbage.
2006-07-28 18:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, have you ever thought about trying to be single? There isn't any pressure to please a lover, and its a growth experience. Its not so bad, and it might do you some good. Take some time out for yourself and when your ready to make a descision make one. Until then, just enjoy life.
2006-07-28 18:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by solitas777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to really sit down and think about what you want out of a relationship.then choose the guy that most fits what you are looking for! Good luck!
2006-07-28 18:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by wmichael.harvey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may sound stupid but it works. Go to sleep seriously thinking about each one and your subconscious mind will make you have a dream of the right one...
2006-07-28 18:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by evilcharm1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with batchelor #3 who hasn't screwed you over yet. The other two losers obviously didn't want you bad enough to begin with.
Good luck!
2006-07-28 18:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by lilith4507 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first two have already proven themselves to be lossers. Seems like an easy decision to me.
2006-07-28 18:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by ebonybutterfly4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clear your mind, and your heart. Stop dating for a couple of months or until you get your priorities straightened.
2006-07-28 18:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by Vic2r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋