Sexual Compromise?

Question

OK my husband is happy with once a month to once every other month. I on the other hand would perfur at least 3 times a week.
Is once a week to once every two weeks a good compromise? or should i push for more, or exept less.

hottie HE HAS i can crawl in bed with him in my best nighty and try for it he will get mad and fuss at me that he has to go to bed. ..... then he'll read for another 20 minutes.

Oh and he has no time to cheat.
lets stick to the compromise plz.

Answer 1

Well you could give him summons to your own personal sex court tell him you are suing him for sex oh yeah you are the judge and the baliff and as both you can order the balif to strip search the defendant for Weapons of of mass Erection and as the judge you order it to be taken into custody as evidence
you can put his wennie on the witness stand and hold it in contempt of coochie I think a little humor will illustrate the problem better to him and see what he he intends to do to bring justice to the land of poon tang If that does not work you can always tell him I will now start feeding you as often as we have sex I am sure that will get his attention. Good Luck.

Answer 2

I don't believe that once a month is enough for anyone unless there are health or emotional issues involved. I don't know if you ought to accept any answers from people who don't know the "whole" story either, I mean it's not natural for a guy to only want it once a month unless it's due to one of the 2 reasons stated above. I am 32 years old and have been with my wife for over 9 years and I have to have it at LEAST twice a week. Usually once in the middle and once on the weekend, sometimes more depending on work and kids. It is a mutual thing between us. We love each other and have had periods in our marriage where there was a dry spell, but that's where you might try romancing him a little, you know putting on some sexy things, or planning a surprise little "night of extacy" just for him. The most important thing is open up and talk to him, you have needs but so does he. Boredom is sometimes one reason, explore different things TOGETHER, but keep it between yourselves and be open but sensitive to each others likes and dislikes. Compromise and be VERY CAREFUL who you take advice from. I hope this helps.

Answer 3

Okay. I gotta say that this would be sadly normal in a wife, but kind of strange in a husband. There are deeper issues here, either physical or mental. You can't make him want it more often, and forcing a compromise won't really make him want it more. It will seem like more of a chore for him and he will fight you harder. You need to get at the root of the problem.

Mental: Is he bored with the sex you're having? Does he trust you enough to tell you what he really wants to try? Are you receptive to new things? Maybe he's interested in bondage or something kinky? Is he ashamed of his body? Is he turned off by yours? For some guys, if his wife has gained a lot of weight, it might turn him off? I'm not saying that's good or right, but it is a fact of life for some guys.

Physical: Is he able to get an erection easily? He might need to see a urologist if not?

Answer 4

Sometimes partners are just not sexually compatible. It doesn't mean he's cheating, or you are not enough for him. Maybe his drive is just decreased. It happens to the best of them. It could be a lot of things. Before you start compromising on something the both of you feel strongly about, you need to have a serious heart to heart. It can be a real drain on a relationship, when all of your needs aren't being met, and sex becomes a job instead of a recreational activity.

Answer 5

wow! my husband has a new job 3rd shift so its a lot harder for us to have alone time with kids.but we used to do it almost every day.now maybe 2-3 times a week.and that's hard for me.i like it about 4-5 times a week.i dint understand why he would only want it once a month.i would tell him how you feel and that you need it more than once a month and i think you should try for at lest 1 time a week.your needs are important too :)

Answer 6

Never compromise on that. Start giving him a direct turn on that he just can't resist, like dressing sexy, or leaving him a note in the "family reading room" that let's him know you are going to be ready and waiting! Put a little excitement into the mix.......a little spice, and a lot of seduction. Men love to be seduced! When you are seduced there is no excuse to say NOT tonight baby.

Answer 7

sounds like he has lost interest in you, are you over weight or something? if you are going out of your way to turn him on and getting no results then maybe you should start going out and meeting new friends with benifits!
it sounds like your husband could care less about your needs so I think that you should start, then maybe he will find you more interesting than reading a book!

Answer 8

Sounds like me i tell my b/f, that i'm tired or sumthing. Cause i have lost my sex drive but i want it back soo bad. U sould talk to him. Ask him whats really wrong.

Answer 9

I agree with rdheadhottie. get ur man interested fondle hoim arouse him. No man can resist a sex women paying attention to him take his member in ur hand and go from there. it would get me going

Answer 10

If you both arent into compromise, flip a coin.....
That way, no one takes responsibility of the outcome...