I just found out that i hav a big bro that was born still birth. its a long story and i would rather not share all or it. but i went to justmommies.com and i ask them on the stillborn message born if ther could make my bro a blinkie for mi, my mom and dad. (a surpise for my mom and dad) and i told them the WHOLE story. and someone reported me cause i wasnt a parent and the "right age" so if you would be willing to make "us" one i would LOVE that. pleas email @ islandgirl185@gmail.com
Thank You
2006-07-28 18:10:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
well im 13 and my parents have been marriaged for almost 17 years. and i think they said they wer marriaged for 2 years. so he would be about 15
2006-07-28 18:17:23 · update #1
A blinkie is a little gif or pic that changes
2006-07-28 18:18:09 · update #2
PLEASE HELP!!! it would mean soooo much
2006-07-28 18:20:28 · update #3
They just told me today. I thought they would lik it. please help
2006-07-28 18:26:02 · update #4
That is a really sweet idea. Sorry I don't know how to make a blinkie. I have two brother Michaels, one was born too early and only lived for a few hours and my sister lost a baby too soon. He would have been 20 last month.
Perhaps you could find some kind of group that helps other moms that don't have such a loving daughter and do some volunteer work in honor of your brother.
2006-07-28 19:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound so sad :(
it must have been quite a shock to find out that you even had a brother, let alone the circumstances of his death.
How did you find out about all this?
If it was from your parents, then maybe it would help to talk to them about it. I am sure that they still find it painful, but they have had some time to adjust, whereas for you it is quite fresh.
If you cannot talk to your parents, is there another adult to whom you could talk? Maybe a favorite teacher, or a school guidance counselor, or a family member or friend, or a clergy person?
Talking about your feelings will help you to deal with the situation. It would also help you to find out if your mom and dad would appreciate a blinkie in remembrance of your brother, or maybe that they would rather have something else instead.
Please take care of yourself during this difficult time. It does take a while to get over a shock like that, so be good to yourself.
2006-07-29 01:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by granny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realize you want to do something nice, but I really think you would just be bringing up very bad memories. They would always look at that blinkie and realize he never used it.
I think you should just leave it alone for now.
2006-07-29 01:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of thing are you looking for? (i'm sorry I don't know what a blinkie is)
2006-07-29 01:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it ,it is in the past gone ,your mum wouldnt want to be reminded of the baby this way,you have to move on in life,not start mourning all over again after all this time and with something the baby never had
2006-07-29 01:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try this site, maybe it will help.
http://www.mouse-play.net/blinkiedesigns/index.html
2006-07-29 02:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really should take that ques elsewere yo
2006-07-29 01:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by apocolipto 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋