my boyfriend likes girls with like the attitude of a badass kinda gurl i dont know how to discribe it. but when i try to argue or make a point he gets angry....what am i doing wrong? how can i make him fall for me more? i feel like hes drifting away from me...please help. best answer ill give 10 points.
no haters please
2006-07-28 17:51:56 · 13 answers · asked by losersrus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What he means is a girl who doesnt take **** from anyone, knows she hot... that kinda badass attitude. Dont yell at him tho, thats sooo the opposite to what he wants. And if you continue to do so then you might find youreslf without him one day. Think about it.
2006-07-28 17:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by Janelle 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like your guy likes girls who have an attitude so long as they don't take it out on him - a bit hypocritical don't you think?
I say be yourself and if he doesn't fall for you, don't sweat it. Try to get over him. You want someone who likes you for who you are and not for someone you are pretending to be for his sake.
Oh, and on a side note - any girl with a real attitude probably wouldn't want to be with a guy that gets angry when she tries to make a point or express her attitude. And ironically - on one hand, your guy wouldn't want to be with a nice girl who puts up with his hypocrisy and on the other hand, would only want to be with the one with the real badass attitude who wouldn't have him...
2006-07-29 00:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by PurpleFool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i always say that being yourself is the best thing and i still beleive that but also dont take sh** off anyone including him all relationships are give and take so make sure yours is worth saving before doing something that isnt you.. No man and i mean man wants a women that doesnt stand up for herself or what she beleives in so you dont have to argue but be firm and dont let anyone push you around ....including him
2006-07-29 00:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by christy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in the Nuts and then say here's some attitude you jerk! And then run away and leave him! You will see him on Maury Povich along with other women wondering if he is their babies daddy! You are not doing anything wrong other than trying to stay with this dirt bag. You deserve a good man and trust me he is not one! You can't make him fall for you because he is a dirt bag and doesn't care for anyone other than himself! You deserve better!!! Please respect yourself! You can do alot better!
2006-07-29 01:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by basscatcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus maintain ur attitude....u r doin nothin wrong... if he liked badass kinda gals then he wont hv been urs in the first case..... moreover some guyz have tendencies to act wierd but then given time he'll automatically fall for u... all u hv to do is to hv a +ve attitude n get this thing outta ur mind that he's drifting away... if he's doin it intentionally then talk to him bout it probably this shld help u...
2006-07-29 01:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by sapsayzkillit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of guys say they love a woman with an attitude but I think they really want the challange of causing her to be submissive.
2006-07-29 00:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look leave him
u shouldnt have to change urself and TRY to make a guy fall for u
a guy should like u for u and nothing else
weather u were bad or good w/e that doesnt matter
i know u might really like him
but im guessing ur still young like aroung 16 is my guess?idk
just leave him and find a guy who would listen to wat u have to say
and who will make u feel happy without u tryen
simply by being who u r !
~hope i helped â¥
2006-07-29 00:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by hotloverxo328 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ur trying too hard, just be urself and dont pretend to be badass if ur not.
2006-07-29 00:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the kind that lives on confrontation. Let me guess.. he takes everything to the Nth degree every time you have a disagreement? This is a personality trait. You can't change it. you can only change your reaction to it.
2006-07-29 00:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by claymore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't change yourself to his standards. If he doesn't like you the way you are - forget about him and find someone that likes you for you. Its important to be yourself in any relationship - otherwise your just lying to yourself. I've been in your shoes before and I can tell you that it is not worth the pain and troubles to mold yourself into something your not for someone else.
2006-07-29 00:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by Rinzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋