At first we were just friends. He was my aunts boyfriend, and the guy she had a kid with. WE ARE NOT BLOOD RELATED. We were always flirting with each toher and i didnt realize i was in love with him until one night he came home and kissed me and that changed everything. We have been "together" ever since. He just left his gf of 16 yrs (theyve been having probelms, before me). We want to be together, and we dont know how to tell our family. Any suggestions?
2006-07-28 17:51:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell them the truth.
You are old enough to make your own desicions, so there isn't much they can do! But get angry, not talk to you for awhile and/or disown you.
Just respect their feelings and don't push him on them, give them time and let them ask you both to do things, if they only ask you tell them you would decline unless he is accepted also.
They will just have to come to terms with it and who knows how long that will take!
2006-07-28 17:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
IF u fall in and out of love wiht a kiss you are far too imature to be using the word love, get real. he is using you like he did your aunt, so if you marry him your aunts kids will be you step child and your cousin, and what is there to tell family,? it is family. you need to take ahold of yourself and run from this peice of ****...
2006-07-28 18:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to be you cousins new mommy...how Springer. Just tell them that you have daddy issues and like to keep it in the family. I'm sure everyone at the trailer park will understand.
2006-07-28 18:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG.What is going on tonight.It's worst than Jerry Springer.Especially if he is the dad of your cousin, you just stay away from this guy. You tookover your aunt's bf. Think about it for a sec. he wants u bc u are young and probably good looking, but I think its only for fun. Don't tell them yet.
2006-07-28 17:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
RUN AWAY!!!!!!!!!! You are "together" with a liar and a cheat. He left his gf of 16 years because he wants to be with you. He was living with your Aunt!!! He's about to ruin your life like he has ruined other women's lives. If you don't believe me, talk to the last two women he has been with. Run and don't look back. please?
2006-07-28 17:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your family you are crazy!!!! Check it out; when you are 50 he will be 75 if he is still alive. When you are in your prime at 30 he will be 55. To old to do you any good!!
2006-07-28 18:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it is sensible to be in luv with a 25 years old guy.You are quite young, u should look forward to a guy of your age group & plan for settled life.
2006-07-28 17:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by adam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell your family, because there is no relationship. If you had to come here and ask a bunch of strangers what to do, well there's your answer. This is too much for you so you rely on us to tell you what to do. He could be your father!!!
2006-07-28 17:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummmmm well i think its gross but thats my opinion and ummm yeah good luck with that 43? are you for real ewwwwwww
2006-07-28 17:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by jolenex101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your family you are in it for the money.. they are going to assume it anyway.
2006-07-28 17:55:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋