i think i might be pregnant with my 13 year old cousins child...seriously. 3 weeks ago i went to this family event, and he seemed really touchy feely, then we went to the back room of my aunts house and yeah...thats when it happend. yesterday i bought a pregnancy test and it said i was pregnant....how do i get rid of this child?!?!?!? please help...i don't want to tell anyone.
oh and i'm 16
2006-07-28 17:46:14 · 20 answers · asked by jennylynnsmith013 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ewwwwwwwwwwww
thats child rape by the way since he's 13 and you 16 they can press charges!!! YOUR COUSIN thats insist thats not right when your family finds out your going to be disowned
have a abortion!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-28 17:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by kay2angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, talk to your cousin, no reason for you to be scared alone. After all, he had something to do with it. Then, wait a week or two and then take another test, Sometimes, especially so early the test could be inaccurate. I would never counsel you to get an abortion. Some cultures consider sex between cousins incestuous and some don't. If you have that problem, it is even more difficult. But the child should not have to pay for his/her parent's lack of foresight, especially not with her/his life. I know, all these old rules of behaviour between girls and boys, and men and women, seem quaint, but they really did serve a purpose. I'm obviously older than you, but I would never have been given the opportunity. And if anyone saw a cousin trying to get touchy feely, he'd be sorry he was born.
I sincerely, with my whole heart hope you are not pg, but if you are, sooner or later you're going to have to tell someone. Is there some adult woman you can trust to give you help and strength and be discreet? You can't handle a pregnancy on your own; don't even try. Whatever you do, keep as calm as you can, don't smoke or use any drugs. We all make mistakes, some get caught, most don't.
Best luck to you.
Mai
2006-07-29 01:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by mai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone here needs to stop being self-righteous and offer REAL suggestions to this girl.
Stop with God and morals.
She wants to know about information she doesnt need anyone criticizing her.
The decision to have a baby or have an abortion is the business of the woman. Instead of telling her she will be a murderer just be quiet or offer some advice she can use.
First off, if you don't want to tell anyone. You need to get to a Planned Parenthood, call them and make an appointment and tell them about your situation.
Because it's early they will most likely reccommend a medication abortion where you go to their office and take a pill that is supposed to expel the implanted egg. In other words it makes your period start.
You need health insurance so bring the card with you.
Click on the bottom link for more information:
2006-07-29 01:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet_Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is incest and it is not right. u do not need to live with this burdon . I honestly do not think u need to be having this child. I do not believe in abortions , but in cases like this I would approve. If that is not an option for u please place the child for adoption.
2006-07-29 02:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang that's nasty hes 13 you 16 and hes you cousin um not good but you did it already so don't kill a innocent baby just because your scare you should of taught that before having sex with him and using condom is not a bad idea!!!
2006-07-29 16:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by cynthia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in an awful position.
~~> You need to tell your parents today.
I do not like the idea of abortion, and I know it scars women emotionally and physically for their entire life.
Always ask your doctor.
2006-07-29 00:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your mom. why would you sleep with your cousin ????? your child could come out with several mental problems. or find a clinic where they will give you a SAFE abortion w/o your mom's permission. the best thing to do is tell your mom. she might be mad but you need her support.
2006-07-29 00:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by zyaire123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw all you people who think it's wrong to have an abortion. At 16 years old you are not mentaly strong enough to have a kid. Tell your mom, have a safe abortion!
2006-07-29 10:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by World of Suffering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you kill this child you will be a murdered in the eyes of God.
Keep this kid and give it up for adoption, dont murder it, imagine killing a newborn baby.
2006-07-29 00:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Sheena H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK everyone shut up about god. I believe that abortion is wrong. Not because of god but because it is MORALLY WRONG to kill someone. Life is about morals not something in the sky you don't even know exists.
2006-07-29 00:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by monkeycchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋