I am in a long term relationship with a man i love and never want to leave. BUT I am curious about having sex with a woman. do you think I should give a threesome a shot? He said befor he thinks that only makes people jealous.
2006-07-28 17:39:34 · 15 answers · asked by Lauren K 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You have to ask yourself can your relationship survive it if you do, do it. But your curiosity will always be there if you continue on with the relationship or not. Is he willing to venture with you on into the fantasy? Or will he feel more comfortable just watching from the side? You have to really be ready for what is going to happen and prepare for it. What if you appetite grows stronger for wanting to try it on a regular? Will he be okay with that? Talk more with your partner and if you do decide to do it; set limits and have a mutual understanding. And if it works out enjoy it for all its worth
2006-07-29 09:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don’t do it, you might always wonder in the back of your mind what it would have been like. Possibly, if you tried it once and it wasn’t wonderful, you’ll never have to repeat it. On the other hand, it may be the best experience you’ve ever had. The research suggests that a lot of people do this frequently so there must be something positive about it. You’ll never know and always wonder about it. Between consenting adults, it may be worth trying if this has been in the back of your mind. In instances, these experiences can potentially strengthen relationships and bring you closer. Of course, naturally and obviously, the final decision is up to you and perhaps you might consider a little Internet research that could help your decision and comfort level. In the meantime, thank you for asking this excellent question.
2006-07-28 18:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by Radial Wave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is odd. I always see that men are the ones who fantasize about threesomes with two women. You should only go for it if both of you are completely open to the experiment. So you need to talk a little bit first.
2006-07-30 21:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kiwi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introducing a relationship to polygamy is fraught with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundamental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.
2006-07-28 19:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are really needing to rethink that idea...big time. What is your problem? You say you have a great relationship and now you want to screw it up, what's wrong with you? Dump that "curious" idea and be grateful you have a good relationship.
2006-07-28 17:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a lucky dude
2006-07-28 17:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it be OK if he also had sex with this woman....and how about if he really enjoys having sex with her so much the next time he forgets to invite you........then he doesn't need you there at all.........then he's gone.
2006-07-28 17:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that, as well. Maybe he would rather you have a one-on-one experience with a woman.
2006-07-28 17:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would absolutely try it i did and now im with both of the woman.its THE greatest experience i have ever had
2006-07-28 17:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by mitch j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will most definitly ruin the relationship. Trust me, don't do it.
2006-07-28 17:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by Rinzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋