Or both. Or neither.
2006-07-28 17:38:00 · 11 answers · asked by yumyum 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i say neither. why use your strength and energy against someone, when kindness kills
2006-07-28 17:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. DeVine 3 · 20⤊ 4⤋
well to me getting even, or trying to, can make matters worst! I don't believe in getting even, tough in some situations I have wanted too.. but I think always forgiving is the best thing to do.. and if I don't forgive, then I would just forget about the whole thing.. like I would erase it from my mind!! Which I hopefully/ NEVER happens!! and hopefully never will....
Even tough getting even with who ever hurt you, alot of people always regret to what they have done to that person, and it might be harder for the realtionship to work out and be better...
GOOD QUESTION!! ; )
2006-07-29 00:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥♥dannii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, it takes the getting mad to get to the point where you want to get even. If you aren't mad, then why do you need to get even?
2006-07-29 00:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay cool
coz when u are mad or when u get even
no one is troubled except you you and only you
just be like a lily in a pond of dirty water
dirt all around and yet so clean
got my point
stay coool
regards
2006-07-29 00:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by KEVIN S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i forgive through the power of God. I can't always just forgive and it takes time, but forgiveness is a better choice than mad or even.
2006-07-29 00:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by Katy] in arkansas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
typically i get even... but it depends on the person who made me mad in the first place
2006-07-29 00:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the circumstances!! I'd say both!
2006-07-29 00:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Juventina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person and the situation, it also depends on whether it is worth doing either of the above.
2006-07-29 00:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by osu2720@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time i get evan but inall of it i get mad, if you do this you need to control your self.
2006-07-29 00:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get mad than I get even.....which doesn't take long..muahaha
2006-07-29 00:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both...good combination...work well together.
2006-07-29 00:41:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋