i hate tellin my friends about my boyfriend but i can' help it cauz i tell them everyhing JUS them but they don't tell me..i want to stop tellin them my ish?? i try but if we get on summin similar wit it igo off??? how can i keep quiet about mines??
u kno those close ppl that u tell everything this is one but i don't want to but i can't help it
2006-07-28 17:35:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
what is this english class??
2006-07-28 17:41:40 · update #1
It is simple, you just don't talk to them about things you choose not to talk about. You have the perception that you can't help it, but that is just a perception. You are choosing to tell them. You can also choose not to. By choosing to believe that you "can't help it", you are making an excuse for behavior that you say you don't want to partake in, yet your actions show that you do want to.
2006-07-28 17:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Garth 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why do feel that you need to have your relationship be an open book for everyone to know about? You don't need to say everything you think.
If you feel you need to get it out, try writing a journal. You can write down your thoughts, feelings, what you did, what you want to do, and that way what goes on between you and your boyfriend is still private and the whole world doesn't know your business.
2006-07-29 01:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I need a translator for your post. Here's a hint: Writing is not the same as talking. Writing like you are talking makes you sound stupid.
You tell your friends about your boyfriend and now you want to stop telling your friends about your boyfriend? Why?
2006-07-29 00:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by PermDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more info - if you're gay and that is why they don't want to hear then you need new friends - it sounds like you might anyway since friends are supposed to be there for you and share things with you and listen.. so maybe you should ask yourself a different question.
2006-07-29 00:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to keep things for yourself.Resolve your self conflict as telling everything to anyone shows you have some sort of inferiority complex that is why you want to to boast on something. Keep personal things for yourself.
2006-07-29 00:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by beau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your friends aren't being supportive then I think you need to find people who will be. If they (or that one person in specific) cannot be there - then find someone who will.
Also, talk to your boyfriend about it. He may be finding the same problem with his friends. Together maybe you guys can find a solution.
Good Luck!
2006-07-29 13:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear lord, is this the future of the english language?
2006-07-29 00:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by Loss Leader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 pray about it and keep yur mouth on the hush or u wont have u boyfriends
2006-07-29 01:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by VooDooQueenWitch Docter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly suggest that until you learn to read and write, that you DO avoid saying anything.
2006-07-29 00:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by stupidbushtricks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be carfull what you say. If they dont axcept your lifestyle then they are not really your freinds.
2006-07-29 14:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by rockandroll5556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋