Can a guy be too nice? For guys and girls...?

Question

GIRLS... Does it seem like the nicer a guy is the more you feel the need to test his limits and look for his pressure points??
GUYSS... When you meet a meet a girl does it seem like the nicer you are the more irritable and b!tchy she is?

If you have any explainations or examples, that would be great.

Demonica thanx for editing... that was a sweet way to put it.

Answer 1

GOD NO ! not anymore . Not after the last jerk I dated . The guy im seeing now is a dream come true and I am so happy . I dont even think about thinking he's too nice. I just love him because he is so wonderful.
Hey I deserve to be treated nice. So do you. Thinking bad thoughts can ruin a good thing. I hope YOU dont ruin a good man.

Answer 2

Yes I really dont get this one because females ALWAYS complain they want a man that will treat them right and as soon as they get one is like "Oh hes too much of a softy" just because he treats you nice and with respect. So they all flock to the as*hole and then complain. I dont get it, just because a guy treats a female good dosnt mean hes soft or anything of the sort, he just respects people untill they give him a reason not too, which is exactly what females do when he gets tired of putting effort into dead end relationships. Tell me why I should put the effort into it when its not going to go anywhere, I could just treat you like sht from jump street and its going to have the same outcome. Good men arnt gone, yall just make them convert cause they are tired of the bullsht. You say open the door for a ladie and then what do you do, walk 99 miles an hour get to the door, dont wait for the guy to open it for you and when you get inside its "you could have opened the door for me" man fuc that Ill just stop trying after so long because its pointless unless I run to get ahead of you and look like your dam servent which Im not and never will be. There are many more examples but im not typin all of that and yall probably wont read it either so Im done voiceing my opinion

Answer 3

No, of course not.

But there is a line between being nice and being taken advantage of. A guy that allows himself to be pushed around and is nice to people that aren't nice to him in return is no longer being nice but being weak, domineered, a pusher over, etc.

No woman wants to be with someone who won't stick up for themselves (or her if need be). So, when a woman comes across a nice guy she needs to make sure that he is genuinely nice, and not just weak willed. In order to tell, we sometimes need to test the guy's limits - just to be sure.

So guys, if your girl is nice to you, be nice back to her - and don't worry about being too nice. But if she is being demanding and asking more from you that she would be willing to return, then be assertive and don't let yourself get pushed around. You needs to set limits - not just for yourself, but to show your gal that you're confident, can hold your own and know your own self worth. If she doesn't back down, well then, I guess she's just a ***** and time to find a nice girl (trust me there are still a few out there).

I broke up with a guy once for just this reason. He was really nice to me and would never say no. So I kept asking more unreasonable things from him - trying to see when he'd finally push back and show that he had some balls. When he never did, I got bitchier and he got unhappier. Finally, I ended up ending the relationship because I didn't like that he didn't stand up for himself (and I didn't think I could count on him to stand up for me, either) and I didn't like who I had become when I was with him. Now I'm with a nice guy to calls me on it when I try to push too far. This encourages me to be nice to him to so that I deserve it when he is nice to me and vice versa. As a result we have a wonderfully balance relationship and we're both really happy and nice to each other.

Answer 4

Ummm... properly it relies upon on how advantageous or how undesirable to be honest. Like i could never circulate out with a guy who exchange into 'undesirable' because of the fact he did drugs or smoked. yet i does no longer circulate out with a 'advantageous' guy who have been given As in all his checks and did no longer be attentive to the thank you to have relaxing. So i will circulate with 'undesirable', even with the undeniable fact that it may be so romantic if he exchange into quite complicated, yet exchange into quite candy with me and does no longer enable anybody harm me. it quite is the main romantic. ;-) Capaz De Todo xxx???xxx

Answer 5

Younger immature girls tend to take advantage of and push buttons of nice guys while being drawn sexually to jerks. Generally they get over that by their mid twenties and then the smart ones will snatch up the good guys,

Answer 6

No, not really. Why take advantage of a nice male? That just gives females the stereotypical names most men refer to females as.

Answer 7

I dont really like it when guys are too nice. They mean well, but it can get annoying. Ive never tried to test a guy because he was alittle too nice. Thats just not right.

Answer 8

Well, as long as they are not too nice. Once my best friend broke up with her boyfriend because he was too nice. I find it sweet when a guy is nice, but as long as they don't overdo it and get too nice. And if they are total jerks, I just ignore them and break up with them. So, being nice counts for something.

Answer 9

Yes

Answer 10

if, and only if a guy(not all of them) are being way too nice is only to thest how far of would you go, kissing, groping, or full throtle

but if girls do it, is because they want to test the guy to see if they want to have sex with you or just really likes you.