I ask myself..will i ever meet someone again and be loved..like i once loved a man who didn't love me I'm now 42 now..(getting old).
2006-07-28 16:43:18 · 7 answers · asked by gengen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweet Sad Lady if you are old then I am ancient.............57.
First of all do something for you to make yourself happy with who you are....then everything else will fall in place.
been there done that...Most importantly, don't give up on you!
2006-07-28 17:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't you rather be 42 and living a calm life than being with someone who's unstable?
42 is only old if you think it is. Take stock of how you're looking these days. Maybe all you need is a new updated look and a positive attitude. Take an evening class at your local college, there's always men there. But for goodness sake....don't ever settle.
2006-07-28 23:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
42 is not old. I am sure that you will find someone that has your best interests at heart. Take your time and maybe even get into a hobby you like-or go back to school and find an interest there. You never know, you might just find someone that likes the same things that you do! Take good care of yourself girl! I am sure you will be just fine!
2006-07-29 00:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Paulina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello ,just to inform you that 42 yrs is not the age , one called an old person , old means , you should be atleast 72 yrs . Any way , pl do not get depressed , you have ample chances of meeting a really nice soul , who will really love you , more then him , i can bet , you must have little more patience , your good time is coming , May Almighty blessed you with lots of courage .
2006-07-28 23:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters 42 is not old!!!!!
Iyala Vanzant wrote in one of her books that this is called 'The Mean Time". OK so we don't have a man, what are we supposed to do In 'THE MEAN TIME'? Well Iyala said that we should take this time and love ourselves, and if we do that it gives others a chance to love us.
I keep saying 'we' and 'us' because I just got out of an abusive relationship too
Let me share with you what one of my buddies sent me:
"DON'T BE AFRAID TO BE ALONE. WHEN YOU'RE NOT LOOKING FOR A MAN THE RIGHT ONE WILL COME ALONG AND SWEEP YOU OFF YOUR FEET."
2006-07-29 01:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE NOT OLD. and more importantly--you deserve to be loved. If you have left this abusive relationship,---Congratulations. Live your life, seriously. Practically everyone is struggling to find the right person who'll love them. Patience is key and it's the hardest thing in the world to maintain,especially in the area of love.
Keep smiling and RESPECT YOURSELF--you deserved to be respected by a man who's willing to be your faithful and supportive companion. Try as hard as you can to move on and be content. NEVER GIVE UP.
2006-07-28 23:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends where you are looking! Hopefully you will not get yourself into a situation like the last one. Love should be mutual.
2006-07-29 00:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋