No, I am not, my mom thinks people choose if they are gay or not. What do you think?
2006-07-28 16:34:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Are gay people all non-believers, or can they be a christian and still be gay?
2006-07-28 16:56:22 · update #1
yes they have a choice to be that way. Free will to either follow godly things or evil(sin).
2006-07-28 16:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by I-C-U 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I don't think anyone can help being gay. I have had this conversation many times with my friends. I don't think anyone would wake up one day and decide to be gay if they have been straight all their life. Why would someone choose a lifestyle that could make them an outcast and be ridiculed by others? Some teenagers commit suicide because they can't accept their own sexuality. So, why would anyone think it is a choice? Either gay people accept who they really are or they live a lie. Is it fair that they should go through life being unhappy because they can't live the way they feel? I don't think so. I think everyone should pay more attention to their own lives and not judge everyone else's.
2006-07-28 23:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by bcooper1975 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian and I can say from the heart that this is not CHOSEN. I have known since I was 8 years old and was miserable with my life of hiding who I really am. I didn't come out until I was 23 and met the love of my life. And believe me being raised strict Southern Baptist I had always been told that this was wrong. I lost family members and many friends over coming out and it really hurt, and I am now 38 years old and been with the same woman for 15 years. My life has not been an easy one because of my being gay. Believe me....No one in their right mind would CHOOSE a life of harassment, bashing, preaching, and the comments made about homosexuals that really hurt, as well as losing family and friend over the person that you are.
Also it is a scientific, proven fact that people are born this way. There has been much research on this topic.
Again believe me, I would have never CHOSEN this life....It is simply who I am. And if God did not want this to happen why does he allow us to feel the way we do about the same sex?
2006-07-28 23:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by thefreekiestfox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No they do not choose to be gay. This is a common misconception. I have a brother that is gay, and a step daughter that is gay. Neither of them are gay by "choice". It is just how they turned out. Both of them tried the "straight life", and it just didn't work out for them, no matter how hard they tried. It doesn't make them bad or immoral. Just different.
2006-07-28 23:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Oblivia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I work with children.....I have a boy in my class that is 6years old...that has gay tendencies.....He rather play dress up as a Mom......I think your born gay,,,,nobody would choose to be an outcast or different or picked on at such a young age
2006-07-28 23:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by just2wild4ya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am gay i didn't choose to be but it maybe different for some that might thing there gay. that's what you call a want to be lol
2006-07-28 23:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't choose who you are. Why would gays choose to be looked down upon by others?
2006-07-28 23:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. is gay a mental disorder? YES! can it be cured? YES!
it's sooo damned pathetic-disgrace of human brain, that science was being used to justifies that disorder by declaring the discovery of the gay gene.
and what will happened next? the paedophilic gene? BSDM gene?
REPENT!!!
2006-07-28 23:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by tania_la_nina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do straight people choose to be straight?
or are you just that way?
I'm gay and I didn't "choose" to be,, its just the way I am.
2006-07-28 23:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by Raynae W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No they don't choose. We were made to love eachother's hearts mind and souls. Not by what they look like.
2006-07-28 23:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mischelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would someone choose to be ridiculed and harassed they choose whether or not to fallow their hearts or live a lie to make society happy
2006-07-28 23:47:13 · answer #11 · answered by javajunkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋