My bf is 15 he thinks his penis size is small. But I wanna tell him that i dont love him for his size. How?

Question

I always tell him that its not... i tell him i love him, not his penis, its 2". But i dont rele care bout the size!

I always tell him its not small.. and we are going to wait to have sex till were married but somehow we have been getting into this convo a lot so i think he rele feels bad bout it.

doesnt anybody understand::
IM WAITING TO HAVE SEX!!! IM NOT HAVING IT RIGHT NOW!!! IM JUST TRYING TO GET HIS CONVIDENCE BACK UP!!!

I dunno how we keep getting on to this subject... we NEVER do anything to each other... but kno matter what I love him with all my heart and i cant just go to another man... thats just not how it works... thats why im trying to help him

Answer 1

ur bf ahs low self esteem..its normal..u just gotta keep trying to tell him that ur not interested in him entirely for his assets down below, but for his heart..

Answer 2

Honey!!! I know it might seem like you are all grown up and that it's really important to be having sex at 15, but wow...I'm only 22 and it seems like I was way too young at 15 to be worrying about my boyfriend's penis size. Okay, enough "big sister" type ranting... here's the deal with what you should say, since you're not going to listen to "sex can wait, highschool can't." He probably has been watching porn and sees all the freakishly large and scary penises. What you should do is comment on how "scary and big" the actor's penises are and then tell him how wonderful it is that his is the perfect size for you and that you love everything about it and him. It will totally boost his ego to think that his penis is your perfect fit.

Answer 3

That shouldn't matter anyway, you two are too young to be considering having sex. That is something that you may end up regretting because a lot of relationships that start in high school do not always last or have a happy ending

BUT to answer your question. You should let him know that you love him for the person that he is. That should tell him that it doesn't matter.

Answer 4

As a mother, I want to tell you that I think you are way too young to be looking at (touching, etc.) this boy's penis! But, since you asked the question, I will tell you a little secret.... MOST guys think that they're too small, because they compare themselves to others -- a lot like girls do with their breasts.

Most men are just about the "right size" when they are aroused. You don't hear many women complaining, do you? What it looks like when it is flacid is not really important.

Answer 5

You are both way to young to have sex . And if you're not having it (or something pretty close to it), how does the subject come up in a conversation anyway?

You've got you're whole life to be an adult, be a kid while you can. Learn how to really talk to other people, and learn how to really love someone. Go to some movies, go hiking, join a book club, go to some football games. Quit talking about his penis and if he insists on whining about it like that, find somebody who has something else to talk about.

Answer 6

ahhhh
well that happens
tell him that the normal size i believe is 4 1/2-6 inches
if he's in that range, tell him he's normal
just compliment him when ur going down on him
boost his ego

Answer 7

Whoa! You guys are to young to condsider SEX. But Chill out, everybody does it anyways.... Just tell him not to worry about it...When he gets older his thing will get bigger eventually.

Answer 8

OK, SO IF YOU'RE NOT HAVING SEX, WHY DOES IT MATTER IF IT'S SMALL OR NOT? TWO, HE MUST BE HAVING SEX ELSEWHERE TO BE FEELING BAD ABOUT HIS SIZE.

Answer 9

just tell him plain, that is NOT the reason you fell in love with him, tell him it was his, example his heart

Answer 10

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