how many of you care about age?

Question

i have people come up to me and say your to young. im not wasteing my time. when i can have a conversation with an 18 year old have have a good time. maturity level is what i think most people dont think about. some 14 year olds act like they are 10 and others can hold theirselves up to a 20 year old. does anyone agree?

i understand that 20 year olds usually wont be walking around with a 13 year old. but the maturity level should help wiht things not getting out of contorl. and yes jail bait but im not looking for a hook up. just making a point bcuz i recently met a grl (im a grl) and i didnt tell her my age right away. i appear 16. but im 14. she was suprized when i told her my age she would have never thought i was so young. this is my point

i didnt want this to sound sexual in any way. this is only converstion not to hook up. i would never do that its against my morals.

Answer 1

Yes. I can easily hold a conversation with a 60 year old. I can even effect their view point and defend mine. I can defend myself verbally when someone flies "off the handle."

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I understand a great deal of today's issues:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0131426435/sr=1-1/qid=1154143887/ref=sr_1_1/103-2441314-0841457?ie=UTF8&s=books

I have mature viewpoints on politics and current events:

"Technically, Israel will almost assuredly win. They probably have the power to wipe Lebanon off the map. The only reason it's taking so long, is that Israel is attempting to not kill civilians. If they really felt their country was under serious threat, it would be excruciatingly clear.

Death everywhere right now though, so there are a lot of losers. "

I am 27.

My point? Bragging? Not really, reading will give you a lot maturity vital information to defend yourself and make you seem older. Also, try discussions with your parents. This is often forgotten by teenages. You might be surprised on their veiwpoints on all kinds of things. Like Marijuana Law:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aq4fyHBqrjtxzZY8DxL09u_sy6IX?qid=20060710201243AAc08qB

Brush up on your sources and have a good'ole drug discussion with mommy and daddy. I did. I had the same discussion with my grandma. She's outraged that the 3 strikes rule puts people in prison for life for smoking a joint. She can't believe it. What do you think about that?

Tell 'em I sent you. Show them that you're mature.

Answer 2

I don't think your talking about conversation...because then age is not a big deal. Sex on the other hand with someone over 18 is a felony for that person. Unfortunately, as mature as you think you may be, when you turn 20,25,30 you will see that you had a long way yet to go.

Answer 3

that makes sense to an extent. u dnt wanna be out on the street walkin wit a 13 or 14 yr old when ur 20

Answer 4

don't date anyone younger/older than u by 2 yrs unless ur over 20-something.. otherwise, its just wrong.. and yes, maturity counts, but a 20yr old should definitely not be dating a 14 yr old

Answer 5

I totally agree, age is just a number. Your maturity level is what makes the difference in matters.

Answer 6

age is only a way of counting the passing of time,not maturity of intelligence or even one place in life

Answer 7

well anything below 18 is considered jail bait.And guys are afraid that maybe things could get a little out of control,and they end up making a mistake that could put them in jail.

Answer 8

i feel ya.....but i hav no problem talkin 2 a 20 or 18 yr. old.......