2006-07-28 16:12:20 · 14 answers · asked by snoopy1147 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe yesterday I should of added that me and my seven year old son (at the time) found her while my dad was at work. It was so hard for me to be strong for my son and to grieve for the loss of my mom at the same time.
2006-07-29 09:36:07 · update #1
The pain will lessen with time, but you will never get over it. That's just how it is.
2006-07-28 16:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by NC_Pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry...it's so not fair (i know, i know...life's not fair). I lost my dad 23 years ago (when I was 9). Every day it still hurts, but not as bad as when I was a little girl. Somedays are better than others, but it'll never stop and there is nothing that anyone can say that will make a difference. It does get better, but it will always hurt. Again, I'm sorry...
2006-07-28 16:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mother passed away two years ago... today is the third wedding anniversary that my dad has been through without her... God has definitely helped me through my grief, but, in my case, my mother had Parkinson's, so it was only a matter of time that her body would not be able to take anything even the slightest bit stressful... we were still not prepared for it even though she had told people in the last few weeks before she passed that she almost finished here on earth and ready to see her Father in Heaven...
God will see you through... ask Him for giudance... He is truly the only one that can help you...
2006-07-28 16:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry about your mom but you have to move on. Letting grief rule your mind and life is no way to live, im sure its not what your mom would want. Just let her go and accept that she is gone and it will help with the grief, I went through this same thing when my grandpa died so i know the feeling.
2006-07-28 16:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years ago is a long time ago. Stay home and sobb all day. When the next day comes, get over it. Let it go. Keep the happy memories. Spend time with other family members. Stop dwelling in the past.
2006-07-28 16:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the initiating, enable me grant my condolences on your loss. it is a serious loss for any youthful individual--pregnant or no longer. Did your mom have any existence insurance? if so, that ought to correctly be used to pay the expenditures. If no longer, you could follow for Survivor's reward by the Social safe practices administration. they pays reward in accordance on your mom's income as a lot as age 24, as long as you're in college. If she had any charge playing cards. you aren't any further accountable for them; the banks will forgive the debt. perchance she had retirement holdings or a 401(ok) at her pastime. commonly, social service organizations can help you; contact the workplace on your city and ask for help. As for the homestead, you and your fiancee can artwork and pay it mutually. possibly you could conceal it with price reductions, insurance money or perhaps the survivor's reward. Having a toddler will make it doubly demanding, yet carry in there; once you graduate and bypass to varsity, you could follow for better economic help and also you need to live on that for a lengthy time period as you go by college. I favor you the finest of success.
2016-11-26 21:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years ago and your still hurting? you need to find peace in your heart. have more family time with anyone else in your family. hang out with friends. talk with anyone you feel comfortable talking to. if it's been 4 years and your still grieving seek help from a professional.
2006-07-28 16:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by keet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always hard dealing with the death of loved ones, talk to someone about your feelings like a counselor so that you can get all your feelings out, your mother would want you to continue to live your life but to keep her memory alive by remembering the good times you shared with her, she is in a better place and is probaly looking down on you and would want you to live your life to its fullest.....
2006-07-28 16:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M HERE FOR YOU!
Seriously, you always have me.
That may not seem to help, but also remember other people are dealing with it to and that your mom would want you to be ahppy.
She's looking down on you right now... she wants you to smile.
2006-07-28 16:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by Byebye Kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mam, my dog had to get put down, that's bad as well, years I was depressed, still am, but I got a new dog, but you can't get a new mum, so find something you like doing and do it for hours, I love the internet, so I use it for hours, and I forget almost everything, it's like a trance
2006-07-28 16:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋