kk i am a all around good girl im growing up in a desint home with loving parents and loving friends (i am 15 bi the way) and reasontly i have been feeling the urge to be a rebel and go behind my parents and i have started to look at porn is that a bad thing because if its bad i need to stop and if it isnt i wanna try to stop so if u have any segsestions PLEASE tell me!!!!
2006-07-28 15:29:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It is normal want to be a little rebel at your age. Just don't make it so important that you make risky or dangerous decisions. As far as the porn goes, if there comes a point that you feel like you might be overdoing it or letting it get the best of you then you need to take control of yourself, put it out of you life, and move on to something else. Moderation. If you can't do it in moderation then you could get yourself in trouble. Pron can be addicting just like cigs and drugs, even legal drugs. You never know what you will get addicted to until you do it and then, if you don't get out quick when you feel yourself slipping you may mess up your life.
2006-07-28 16:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by ~K~ 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stop the porn or you will have bad planted into you and it is hard to stop. One deviate behavior can open the door for more bad things.Porn will stop exciting you and you will have to have something more disturbing to excite you sexually. Rebellious feelings are natural but you don't have to act on them. Talk with your great parents and let them know that you don't want to rebel but that you feeling the stress. It could mean that you are needing more responsibility and with that comes the maturity of making decisions. You may be just needing an adjustment in the parent/child relationship because parents don't always sense that their child is a young adult. Talk and be honest and you will be surprised at how it will come out. Yelling and whining and rebelling will only get you more restrictions. You will have no respect for yourself either. Best wishes on your maturity and new life. Just say no to the porn. It is a rebellion and is a bad choice for life long stability.
2006-07-28 22:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Have That Same Problem Is Normal to look at porn but my suggestion is that maybe you should try to quit before you get way too horny and end up like me crying because you can't
Find Any One The Best Thing To Do Is To Quit Its Ok To Look Sometimes But Make Shure That It Dosenot Become An Addiction
2006-07-28 22:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Toronto Lover In Wewoka Ok. USA. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen... what you are doing is normal. At some point in time everyone needs to cut the string. Also, given your age, you are heavy with hormones. You are the perfect age and not alone... Talk to your friends. Do what you need to survive. My suggestion... stay away from porn. Porn is addictive. Find somethng you like and go to it full steam ahead. You like meeting people, get a job as a hostess. Do something you like. Porn is a crutch nothing more. Don't let it own you.
2006-07-28 22:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by BeenAround 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't start on porn, you may end up addicted.
Look, your parents may not know how mature you are, because you haven't showed them. Not talking to your parents is a sure way to make them somewhat suspicious. If you actually talk about kids and school and stuff with your parents they will trust you much more. I got to do just about anything I wanted while I was in school. I simply demonstrated my maturity in conversation.
So, you want to be a rebel? At your age, being rebelious is easy and good for you, as long as you do it in a healty way.
For instance, break from trendy clothes and determine what style YOU really like. Read books about problems older people have or their hobbies. I like hydroponics, horticulture, and relationship psychology. Develop mature viewpoints on abortion, gun control, and religion. Be informed. This will set you far apart from other young women and men in your class. Find a hobby like crocheting, woodworking, sculpture, or painting.
You will be amazed at how satisfied you can be by yourself if you learn what makes you happy, and when you can verbally defend your positions.
2006-07-28 23:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i'm 14 and a really good girl. But lately the same thing has happened to me. I'm tired of being good all he time, people set really high standards for me because well heck i'm not sure why. But yeah the best thing i can tell you too do, is being a good girl isn't bad. It may feel like it makes your life boring, but sreiosuly how much fun would lieing and getting drunk be? It would prolly be fun, but once you get caught you will regret it forever, and then you will only wish to be the good girl again. Save yourself the time and just stay being the good girl. That's what i have decided to do. E-mail me if you want to talk.
2006-07-28 23:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by manda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I don't think a 15 yr. old should be looking at porn, but as long as it doesn't get out of hand and you don't get in trouble for it, then have fun. But if you want to stop, which I suggest, ell someone, as embaressing as it might be, and they can help.
2006-07-28 22:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it is bad. you are getting to the age of starting to find out who you are and growing up. Don't become a porn addict!! But you are not bad.
2006-07-28 22:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what is ur personal defniton of bad..sum ppl object to porn cuz of relgion..are u religious..even so..i dun think its that bad..u cud be doing a lot of other crazier ****..especially at ur age..ur hormones are wild and ur bound to have certain urges..
2006-07-29 03:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by shana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it ain weird porn is a good way 2 pik up moves but if ur trin 2 b good then.......no that is very very bad u should stop.
2006-07-29 00:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by bambi..♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋