I want to talk to my mom about sex. So one day I asked my mom 'Why don't we ever talk about sex?" And she just said 'your young' I want to know more about it but she won't tell me. I have read books about it. But its not the same.
2006-07-28 15:17:35 · 21 answers · asked by mackenzie b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Do you have an older sister you can talk to? Or maybe an Aunt? Maybe remind your mom that if she doesn't talk to you about it, you may find out incorrect information from other sources. Stress that your friends are talking about it and that you are confused. Good luck, my mom never talked to me about sex either.
2006-07-28 15:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by curious_maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that you're going to ask your sex question online if she doesn't answer them.
I'll help you a little though. I assume you understand the mechanics.
Sex is a very intimate and personal behavior. If you have sex before you are married, or have found your life long partner, it is very possible that you will have unwanted memories and/or other regrets in the future; The type of memories sex creates are very powerful. You can get STDs and many young people do. People get pregnant with all sorts of birth control devices. Sterilization is the only 100% effective birthcontrol method, and you can still get life threatening STDs. STD's can cause sterility, and never have any symptoms. You should never have sex unless you are prepared for the consequence of pregnancy (being a partent is a life long obligation, giving a child away is hard, and abortions may destroy your emotions for years and leave lasting scar on your heart).
That being said sex is a wonderful experience to share with someone you love and cherish.
2006-07-28 16:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, how old are you?... Maybe shes just waiting till a better time and thinks youre mature enough, ya know? Me and mom never had "The Talk"...Soo I had to learn on my own. I wished she would have told me everything there is to know because I didnt want to get knocked up or anything..I just wanted to be safe and careful and not let some guy tell me about that stuff and half of it may not even be true, ya know what i mean?
2006-07-28 16:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "Mom, I know you are scared of talking to me about sex, but I am (fill in age) and people are having sex at this age. I want you to know I'm not and I just want to learn about it from you first instead of getting the wrong information from my friends."
It will open her eyes. I wish my mom would have talked to me about it when I was younger, it would have saved problems. Kids should be talked to about it around 10 y/o.
2006-07-28 15:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts!!!! Never talk to your parentsabout sex!!!! Learn from the internet!!!
No. Serious... sit your mom down. Tell her you need answers. Keep after her until she opens up. Moms are people too. Your mom is slightly uncomfortable - give her time but do not give up!!
Good luck... Remember.. sex is an adult topic. If you are old enough to talk... you are old enough to handle your mom. Do not give up.
2006-07-28 15:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by BeenAround 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shardae hit it right on the nose.
My 10 yr old came to me and told me that some of her friends at school were saying that they had already had sex (sad thought that they start that young), and she wanted to know what it was.
I suggest you follow Shardae's advice and tell your mom that other kids at your school have been talking about having sex themselves. And eventhough you both may be embarrassed to talk about the subject you want to talk to HER about it, not get misleading information from your peers. That may bring her around to talking to you about it.
2006-07-28 15:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by Just_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you stop asking questions here. There are a lot of jerks who will give you weird answers.
Try to ask your mom again. But please stop looking on the internet.
When the time comes you will know.
I will tell you that sex should be something shared between two people that love each other.
2006-07-28 15:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by Marge Simpson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe instead of asking your mom why dont we ever talk about sex just ask her a question about sex. she is more likely to answer you that way.
2006-07-28 15:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by charlie12880 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your mom ready it.I'm sure her will like to let U know that all
about.For me,my mom just surprised me by one day after dinner
she asked me to take a bath with her.It feel very embarrassing at
the started moment.But she let know everthing during that shower time with me.Just wait & see!(",)GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-28 17:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by hAPPY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you would rather learn from her, than wait for the moment it happens and you know nothing. That would get me going, if I was your parent.
2006-07-28 15:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋