my ex b/f of only 4 days told me today that he has a new friend, i find out this new friend is a female who is pretty, he talks with her on the phone for hours sees her all the time. but he says he doesnt want her he wants to be with me. im confused, i dont know if he wants me or is just saying it or if i get with him then he might still talk to her please help
2006-07-28 15:17:15 · 9 answers · asked by okangeljenny23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he wants you untill he can get to her...he wants to see who he can sleep with first..
2006-07-28 15:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an ex. Move on. It will stop you getting hurt in the long run. His life is his own now. You have no say in what he does.
If you want to get back together with him, do it, and be honest with him about the friend he has. If he keeps contact with her, let him. Having friends in a relationship isn't illegal. He *is* allowed to talk to others. Get some self confidence too, you will both be better for it.
2006-07-28 22:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by xian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm sure he's your EX bf for a reason. And the fact that he's flaunting another girl right in front of you should say something. I say don't waste your time. Try and remember when you first started dating... I bet you he spent hours talking on the phone with you and seeing you every chance that he got. Don't let him string you along. There are plenty of guys out there that wouldn't do this kind of crap. Find one of em'.
2006-07-28 22:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by DJ Sliced Monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is a bad relationship/situation.
Even if he is not doing anything, which is hard to believe, this will drive you crazy and you will always wonder and worry.
If h can not respect your feelings and ditch his new "good" female friend, he is probably up to no good with her and you need to find a man who will respect you and your feelings..
Good Luck..
2006-07-28 22:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. 4 days of heartbreak is a lot cheaper than what you'll get later by showing you'll stay around while he shops for something else.
2006-07-28 22:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with KT. The guy is playing you until he breaks the other girl down. Get him off yo' island!
2006-07-28 22:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by julesl68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this might hurt, but forget him. If he loved you, he would be talking to you. Go on with your life.
2006-07-28 22:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Best Dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on... because a guy talking to another girl like that, means he wit you but he tryin to get wit her. so as soon as he gets her he going to leave you. so move on, atleast you can break up with him first.
2006-07-28 22:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Redd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if the boy wants you take him cause when he`s gone he`s probly not coming back
2006-07-28 22:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by breszille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋