I have this friend who used to be my bestest friend, but then she started to hang out with some other girls, and eversince she all mine and is always picking on me. She also says things about me behind my back. Sometimes she gets me real pist, and makes me just wanna shut her up by punching her in her big, ugly *** face, but I really dont wanna throw away all those years of frienship.What should I do?
2006-07-28 15:05:49 · 19 answers · asked by La_Shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ounds to me like she has already thown away the friendship. If I were u I'd stay away from her, if she wants to hangout with these friends who picks on u( and she joins them) then u shouldn't call her a friend. If she was a true friend she NEVER would have left your side and she would not make u so mad u want to punch her.
She wrong and once she finds out that the girls hers left u for is not her friend she may try to come running back to u. It's up to u if u want to forgive and let her back in ur life but, u have to remember if she did it once then she may do it again.
She's not your friend( your hers) but she's not yours.
So just have nothing else to do with her, if she should start to pick on u again ignore her for as long as u can then do what u have to do to stop her. ( but walk away 1st)
I hope that u meet a friend and u and the new friend will become good friends until you both old and gray.
=-)
2006-07-28 15:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are alone with her, ask her straight out. Are you a friend like we used to be or are you not? Tell her how you feel like you said here. As honest as you can be because you also have to tell her if she never wants to be like you used to be. She has to give you up totally as you are about to give her up. And you have to mean it. Either that or just beat her to it and totally say goodbye to her one time, then never again. Your young, you can have many bestest friends. You don't need her kind.
2006-07-28 22:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your path in life will change sometimes. this girl and you were best friends back in the day, but today, times have changed. Do not dwell in the past. the girl you knew before is not the girl you know now. Slowly back away from her and God will get you a new best friend. Jus believe, I have had an experience like yours.
2006-07-28 22:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably aint gonna convert back to the same person you once knew her as anytime soon. My advice, you need to tell her to back off-but in a nice way so she wont try to start a fight with you. If she doesnt stop it shows she starts stuff she can't finish and wants to get to you. Give her some space. One day she's gonna wish she wouldn't have been such a jerk.
2006-07-28 22:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends change. Believe me. Look around you. I can assure you that the friends you have now will most likely not be around you in 10 years. That's the way it is.
2006-07-28 22:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all she not a friend. friends don't treat friends like that. kick her a s s to the curb. friends like that you don't need. you can fine better friends who won't stab you in the back. maybe she doing drugs. or drinking. she is just trying to make your self look good in front of the girls. don't worry what goes around comes around. just go about your business. and forget her.
2006-07-28 22:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what years it seem's that you was the only one tha was a friend cuz what you are talking about that's not a friend she was just going with the flow of thing's basically she did not have any one else to hang with so she just hung with you so now she's showing her true side. so now you need to forget about the past relationship that you had with her and move on...........
2006-07-28 22:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by clare26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she has already thrown the friendship away. A true friend wouldn't do the things that she is doing to you.
2006-07-28 22:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait patiently ...she'll come back around. It won't be long and (if you remain nice) she will start remembering what a good friend you were and how long you were friends with her before everybody else came along. good luck
2006-07-28 22:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a friend from a distance just give her space let her see the loosers she's hangin out with and she'll come back to her true friend when she see's you're not going anywhere.
2006-07-28 22:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by KitKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋