really pissed and makes me feel really bad, wtf is up with that?it really hurts me, everyone has their opion,so what if mine didnt meet his damn "standard" of thinking.
i love him but sometimes i want to hurt him physically and show him how he makes me feel
any sugestions on what to do?
2006-07-28 14:57:54 · 16 answers · asked by Daisy d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he probably doesn't realize it's such a big deal to you. Sometimes people feel so passionatly about something they get oblivious to any other explanation. I know it's not right, but unfortantly I think I'm like that with my boyfriend, everytime he gives his opinon. I still respect my boyfriend, and "value his opinon" but i suppose I tend to attack him whenever he gives his opinon about something i disagree with... it's bad i know... :)
2006-07-28 15:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself another boyfriend! He shows all the sign's of being a "controller". If you sit around and Waite for him to change...pack a lunch,it's going to be a long Waite. You need a partner who respects you,and your opinions. Sweety,it's not gonna happen with him.Move on to greener grass.
2006-07-28 15:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think BEFORE you do hurt him physically, you should talk it over with him... EVERYONE is entitled to their opinion as it's simply the stating of whatever that person views as the truth... We - as people - need to spread peace, love and understanding rather than fighting each other to prove what we think to be true... Your physically hurting him is just as bad as his verbally hurting you... Can't you both just agree to disagree from time to time? "...Can't we all just get along...?"
2006-07-28 15:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship seems troubled to me. Both should try learning some new coping skills that don't involve anger and physical pain.
2006-07-28 15:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by dt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say i think you do deserve better but if you love him id understand why my answer or my opion is wrong... but you should not let anyone put you down like that about your opion... just tell him your opion matters and hes going to hear it weather he likes it or not...
take care hope that help i know it didnt but take care anyways
2006-07-28 15:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by *~BabiGurl~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would find someone who's opinions matched mine a little more closely. I know that's a hard pill to swallow, but think about dealing with this for a lifetime and how miserable it would be. You are not going to change him, and he's not going to change you. I know you love him, but you have to also think about what's best for you...
2006-07-28 15:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by julesl68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you end up beating him up, just dump him and get someone else who is easier to get along with, this would be better and keep you out of the pokey!
2006-07-28 15:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo...if it is coming to blows...it is time to evaluate your situation...make sure this is the cat you want to be with...love is not the only thing you need to keep a strong relationship...there has to be respect for each other as human beings..you know the golden rule....some folks don't want to hear other folks opinoions and if that bothers you........you have to decide what to do...
take care peace.....
2006-07-28 15:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by spyceedc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell him how you feel. It's possible that he doesn't even realize he's doing this to you. If he continues even after you tell him, then I would no longer consider him a friend.
2006-07-28 15:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this relationship is not going in the right direction. If he is an A** now it really gets worse the older he gets!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-28 15:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋