Considering so many people are involved in unhappy relationship's, Would you think that lonelyness is worst than unhappiness?
Why if so?
2006-07-28 14:54:33 · 5 answers · asked by DUMMY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's easier to get over loneliness than unhappiness.
Unhappiness is like a bad habit. We get used to it. It's harder to recognize. With loneliness, it's easier to get over because all it takes is positive activities with positive people. Then you can get into doing fun things for yourself and even BY yourself.
I'm doing my best to work this process myself. A good friend of mine reminded me today of exactly what I just shared with you above. Good luck!
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2006-07-28 15:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by CaliforniaT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How many people do you know that actually stay lonely? If you leave an unhappy relationship, eventually you will move on and find someone else. But, if you continue to stay in an unhappy relationship just to avoid being lonely, that could go on for years and years. Unhappiness is definitely worse that loneliness. I need to listen to myself right now because I'm doing just that- staying in an unhappy relationship to avoid being lonely!!!!! Definitely easier said than done!!!!
2006-07-28 15:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excellent question. Although I know many will disagree, I believe unhappiness is worse than lonliness. There is nothing wrong with being alone. You can come and go as you please, have nobody to answer to, and have things the way you want them. If you don't like being alone, you have the choice to change it. Unhappiness isn't that easy. Most people in unhappy relationships don't see a way out, are afraid to look for one, and it ends up taking it's toll on them. The emotional feeling becomes a physical one and it changes who you are. It changes your outlook on things, the way you make decisions, and daily functions. It also "bitters" you to the world. Creates un-necessary baggage that you'll carry around for when you do find a way out. And becomes an obstacle you'll have to over-come when you do find the strength to find happiness again. Life is short.....BE HAPPY!
2006-07-28 15:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be unhappy is the worst because then you are always sad, being lonely, you can go and do things and not be as lonely. It isn't wise to live with someone because out of fear of loneliness. Usually that is when someone will take advantage of you and feel since you are needy they can treat you any way. Fear of being lonely is the worst and it can be overcome.
2006-07-28 15:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loneliness is worst!! unhappiness, you could get over it over a llil time, while lonelyness, you just learn to live with it. youll be that big ugly lonely person.
2006-07-28 15:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by apreeL p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋