there both good friends equal.
2006-07-28 14:53:01 · 10 answers · asked by positivesk8ter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
be a man and tell her
2006-07-28 15:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will tell to the girl the truth.I don't care about what the guy will say or think about me.I know i will be doing the right thing.I can't stay quiet when i know that one of my good friend's boyfriend is cheating on her.Whoever her boyfriend is (even if he is my friend too).I will do the same if it's the girl who cheats on the boy.If i don't say anything that means i agree with what he or she is doing but i don't.If he cheats on her that means he isn't a good friend.He can make our friendship end but i will have a clear conscience and peace in myself.For this situation there are 3 posibilities:
If you tell the girl, the guy might be mad at you
If you don't tell the girl,she might be mad at you
If you tell the girl both of them might be mad at you.
I don't really know what will be each of them reactions but the best thing is to tell the girl whatever happen you just have to clear your conscience.
2006-07-28 22:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Naty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in the situation. my home boy was crushing badly on my new friend.
i know him ..... i know exactly what my home boys intentions are, i know how much of a player he truly is, and how many girls he was juggling at the moment already.
I warned her because she was my friend and told him to back off. I confessed to her that he wasnt the nice guy he played out to be, and i explained to him how hard i was going to kick his nuts if he broke her heart. he knew how serious i was so he let her go. tell your friend who ever is cheating to stop.... warn the other
2006-07-28 22:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then I would let that friend know( THE GUY) how I feel, and try to remain as neutral as possible. I mean do you see them often? Do you speak to them daily? If so try a minimize the time you spend with them both.
2006-07-28 22:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by bredambrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your cheating friend that if he wants to continue to have you as his friend, he'd better stop cheating on your other friend. And be prepared to stand by your ultimatum to him. He's hurting both of you.
2006-07-28 22:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by LindaLou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the cheater to stop. Then it's their choice to stop or not. If he doesn't then tell him that you feel you'll have to tell the girl if he won't know it off. Then it's still his choice if you go to her to "enlighten" her.
At least you'll be able to look at yourself in the mirror and have one good and ethical friend left. Remember, "honor the honorable."
2006-07-28 21:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by CaliforniaT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are between a rock and a hard place.
If you tell her they will both hate you.
If you do not tell her when she finds out
they will both hate you.
Stay away from both of them.
2006-07-28 21:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to stay out of it and play dumb. You don't want to get involved, or it will all backfire on you somehow.
2006-07-28 21:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either keep out of it or play both sides..........thats a hard one......but you will make the right choice dont worry, trust me
2006-07-28 21:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by kewllikethat@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either way, one of them will be mad at you, the boy will get mad for telling, the girl will get mad if you don't (if she finds out you knew).
2006-07-28 21:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by *Missing My Baby* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋