Remember that they've been together for 20 years and have two children of their own. The wife is older than him by 10 years. He is 41 and the new chick is 24.
2006-07-28 14:50:16 · 5 answers · asked by Lynda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's something that they will have to come to common grounds on. Me I could not accept the fact that he slept with somebody else, and two I would have to question myself has he always been cheating? This sounds like a relationship was going on,and if he cheated on me he'll cheat on her with somebody else.
2006-07-28 14:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by bredambrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are the "you" he cheated on you should MYOB. If you are the concerned party you should suggest counsleing. You may have to live with him paying child support. On the other hand a guy cheating on an older woman for a younger woman does not bode well. You may need to get in touch with a divorce lawyer and get the best settlement you can for you and your kids.
2006-07-28 21:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lleh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering the fact you all have been together for twenty years, Honestly it would take more than that to walk away from a twenty yrear relationship. If you are a strong and independent women and you want to make him undrestand your worth than leave, but know that if you leave there is lots of oppurtunity for no return. Overall i think its best to consider wats best for your kids and the new kid.
2006-07-28 22:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by Shanika M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH!! Tough one, two chioces, live with it, or live without him. So I say do what is good for you.
2006-07-28 22:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him. Why would you even consider anything else?
2006-07-28 21:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋