2006-07-28 14:45:45 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
girl i am in the same boat it is hard, but i am leaving my husband to be with the other person, cause he is nicer to me and my kids.
2006-07-28 14:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you talk about is called "polyamory". I believe that polyamory is like sexual preference. Something you are born with and cannot change. My fiance and I are both openly polyamorous. We have a very loving, committed and close relationship, but we also choose to love other people outside our relationship very deeply. It is not something I can personally just "change". I feel that there is nothing wrong with it, as long as everyone involved is aware of feelings for everyone else, and everyone accepts that those feelings are happening. I hope this helps you out!
2006-07-28 21:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by xian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I was going to say was that I am in the same boat as you and it tares me from limb to limb. If you know how to handle this let me know. I plan to leave my husband but right now I AM IN A court battle with my 1st over my son but when that is done I hope to me with my love and if its really love then you can't ignore it. You are just going to have to realize that if you want yo be happy then be upfront as soon as you can. Do you want to sacrifice your happiness and feelings?
2006-07-28 21:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by simpli2die4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are a knucklehead and needs to get a grip!
This person should be in love with only their spouse, or maybe they should be single so they can do this kind of thing and not hurt anyone?
2006-07-28 21:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help who you fall in love with.
2006-07-28 21:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by Pirate_Wench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can happen
2006-07-28 21:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Erik E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋