Why do women cheat on their husband?

Answer 1

Well contrary to popular belief by some guys, it is not because how good you are in bed. It usually has to do with how your relationship is as far as communication whether there is none or not, and many different factors that can happen in your relationship, where they are sometimes searching for a possible comfort they are not finding they are having in their relationship.

Answer 2

Adultery can have disastrous consequences on the relationship, particularly the impact it will have on your children, if you were to get a divorce. In the Bible, Moses handed down a writ of divorcement for the cause of Adultery/fornication ONLY. If you divorce for any other reason and either of you remarry, then you both will be committing adultery.

Thus, you are doing the right thing by trying to find what the reasons are so that something can be done about it. While you feel that you are doing everything that a good husband is supposed to do, there are still several reasons why a woman might resort to adultery:

She lacks moral values;

Your home has not been structured where God is first, the Husband is the head of the household, and the wife is his helpmate. Then there are children.;

She had not intentions of being bound by the oath she gave to her husband and to God when she married her husband;

She has not kept herself focused on the role of a wife, her responsibilities as a wife, so temptation has gotten a foot hold;

Her husband has not been focused on his role as a godly man so that he can lead his wife and love her as the Bible instructs, "As Christ loves his church."

Marriage is not disposable. You can't just marry someone and then throw them away as if they were as used tissue. Marriage is for life. So, if the husband has forgiven his wife, then they can begin the healing process through faith and that forgiveness.

The wife who commits adultery must accept that she has defiled the marriage bed, betrayed her vows, and should be ready to accept the consequences that are now ahead of her, humbly and without grumbling.

However, the Bible says, "If he chooses to make her leave," then the husband has the right to divorce her and make her leave the house---she would take nothing with her but her clothes and personal items. Sin is costly, especially when you sin against your own flesh---your husband.

Answer 3

Every woman that cheats has her own reason. There is no one answer. Most of the time, I think it is neglect (husband working too many hours or just not paying attention to them). Others cheat due to lack of sexual gratification (not getting enough or it's not good when they do get it). Some women just have no morals and don't care about the sanctity of marriage. Some just aren't happy with their marriage and are looking for something else.

Answer 4

What usually happens most of the time is "life" draws husband & wife apart. They start doing things around the house, not paying attention to each other. They don't take time out from their busy lives to spend time together, without kids, without other people, etc. Soon the wife and/or the husband both get bored, are unhappy and feel neglected, and they don't know how to get out of their "slump". A marriage is something that has to be tended to, so when it is neglected, the woman, or man for that matter, is ripe for an affair.

Answer 5

Not all Women "cheat" on their husbands. At least not me and I'm sure their are some women who do "cheat" and those are the individuals who do not have self control and are very selffish.

Answer 6

There was a survey in Playboy about ten years ago. It stated the number 1 reason women cheated was revenge. They were'nt going to leave them but they thought getting even was the best punishment.

Answer 7

Can't speak for every woman but I'm looking else where because he's not interested in intimacy of any kind. If I'd get more than the good bye kiss in the morning and the hello kiss at night I wouldn't even think of straying.

Answer 8

It's because they feel a void in their relationship. I know women who have taken lovers because their marriage is loveless. This can happen for may reasons, and whilst they have tried to rectify this issue their husbands live in denial. Sad but true.

When a womens husband denies her of love, she will eventually seek it from another source: by-way of a man.

Answer 9

Some of the same reasons men cheat on their wives...spouse isn't interested in sex any more...not getting enough attention...desire for variety...ego boost of still being desirable to the opposite sex...etc...

It's an awful thing to do to anyone...and those that cheat deserve what 'comes around' to them later...

Answer 10

not keeping promises is kind of cheating. that's what husbands do. so women do the same.