Ok, I have NEVER had a boy friend before. I'm a young teenager. Does this mean I'm ugly.? I'm nice and I think I'm not that fat but I get so jelous when all my friends have boy friends. Is there a way I can make guys like me?
2006-07-28 13:52:05 · 10 answers · asked by Becky 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
There is no way to MAKE a guy like you. If a guy does not like you for you, then you do not need to be with someone like that. Most guys are only after one thing any ways and im sure you know what that is (sex). Do not change who you are for absolutley no one! You are still young and you have plenty of time to meet the right guy for you. Do not pay attention to what your friends are doing but i do understand how it makes you feel to see your friends with a b/f.
Im sure you are nice and have a great personality and that is more of a reason that you do not need to rush things. There will be a guy out there that accepts you for you. Remember this: most things in life are gained through patience.
2006-07-28 14:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Be Told 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listen , if you are still a teenager you shouldn't even be dating no matter what your friends are doing.If they jumped off a cliff would you? NO. Do you know that most RESPONSIBLE, MATURE adults date for marriage, do you really think you are ready for that? Well if the answer is no which I believe it is,and you went on dating any way that would be very ir- responsible on your part, and you should feel proud that you are smarter then your friends and that you will have alot longer to live your life as a free woman!!!!
2006-07-28 21:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by outdoor_girl93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens all the time, it's not because you are not pretty. I'm pretty sure you are very beautiful. I bet you see a lot of girls that are less prettier than you and yet they get the boys, right? And you just wonder what is going on?!!! Usually it's because of shyness. I've seen it over and over. My wife indeed was like that, I think she's very pretty but she never had a boyfriend until we met, she is very shy.
Because I'm a man I can tell you what will help you with "us". Women attract men by "flirting" and if you are shy you probably don't flirt or feel embarassed to do it. So, that's the trick, but how to do it?
I'll give you some tips:
- Look men in the eyes: women flirt and trap men with their eyes. Women literally KILL with their eyes! and as a man you can immediately catch when a girl is interested in you, because she is already loving you with her eyes. It really melts your heart when a girl looks at you. So, if the guy likes you or hadn't noticed you before, he already has a clue and probably go and talk to you.
But you have to be brave. Pick the one you like, stare at him and smile. I know it's tough, you'll feel the urge to withdraw your eyes, but STAY there for a while!!! And don't worry, cause the first time feels akward and embarassing, but thereafter you'll see it gets easier and finally you will master it! So, just do it the first time and you're ready to go.
- Talk to him: you are also probably embarassed to talk to guys and don't know what to say, right?. You don't need to tell him that you like him, your eyes and body language tell much more. What to talk about? (I guess you just go blank and don't know what to say). Ask him normal questions, don't try to impress anyone, just be yourself. You can ask for example: "What are you doing in the summer..? If for example he says, "well, I'm going to the beach.." you could say in a flirty way, smiling and staring at his eyes. "well, aren't you going to invite me?", or " i'm looking for a place to go this summer". By this you already started a conversation. Ask things about him first (hobbies, sports he likes, etc) and then add something else about yourself to make it a "2-way conversation", but don't talk much about you, show him that you're interested in him. That's also what women like about men.
- Look pretty: some girls like you get disappointed and forget about the looks. I don't know if that's your case, but if you want to catch someon, you could probably do something like a makeover. Change your hair style or color, put some make up, wear some sexy or cute clothes (not too much that guys think you are easy) and overall, act very secure about yourself.
And talk to guys, otherwise there is no other way to actually START something. Try it, act naturally, we all get nervous, not only you.
2006-07-28 21:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im 13 a young teenager this is what you gotta do! you could be the hottest girl in the world but if you are shy, and quiet guys wont even look at you. be outgoing, flirt alot make conversation with guys
2006-07-29 13:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, i'm almost 19 and only recently started going out with a guy (that i really like) for one i know that i'm not ugly. talk to guys , become their friend , get to know them a bit, let things develop...then if you two have strong feeling for each other u two can get together and have a nice relationship...don't worry about other girls , most probably their relationship with their b/fs are not as great as u imagine them to be. cheer up and remember it's not fun being like everyone else.
2006-07-28 22:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, this may sound funny or weird, but i'm not joking. try to do a lot of high intensity glute (butt) exercises (not for rep, for mass). the more definition your butt has, the more guys would like you.
nobody say this is "stupid" advice, because she's not trying to get mental help here. she's a teenager who wants to get a bf.
yea, good luck. and if it gets flatter stop what you're doing immediately lol
2006-07-28 21:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by onomatopoeia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, I got my first real boyfriend when I was seventeen, It doesn't has to do anything with you been fat or not, been ugly or not, if a guy is going to like is going to like because of you. If he does not, then he doesn't deserves you. And don't worry you have your hole life in front of you to enjoy relationships, believe me enjoy your freedom now that you can!
2006-07-28 21:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by united we stand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying, you are a young teen, you shouldnt even consider kissing a boy till you are at least 16. stay clean, dress neatly and in reasonable fashion, try to have interesting things to say, stop being jealous, that really puts people off, actually the girls who guys like as teens, are the ones they can get to have sex, they wouldnt ever touch them when they are grown up.
2006-07-28 20:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rate your worth by how many boyfriends you have or don't have. I didn't get my first girlfriend until I was 18.
Just live your life, be yourself and someone will come along. There is no rush, no matter what anyone says.
2006-07-28 21:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by jelzinga95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can hook you up with my friend. OR you can just walk up to guys you like and rub their crotch. That always works.
2006-07-28 20:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by Jullianne B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋