Why does this guy act so mean and hateful? I heard from many people he had a crush on me as well.?

Question

I had a crush on this guy freshman year. We talked on AIM, I called him once, and we talked pretty frequently at school. But then things started to change. He would be crabby and criticize me, mimic me, and say racist things to me. He also told my friend that I am ugly, mean, stupid, and a b****. I was nothing but nice to him. I would help him with homework, share with him, and stick up for him when people were making fun of him. He wasn't liked by many, but I have always felt everyone needs a friend, so I was there. I mentioned to him we'd have a few classes together and he said, "Now my IQ is going to go down because of you." He's the one who needs extra help in order to pass and I get good grades by studying hard. He also told my friend he wanted to kill me, but then he said he was joking. He also told my friend, "She's not my friend. She's a b****, and I hate her very much." I can't think of one time I was ever mean to him, and I did so much for him. Why does he act this way?

Answer 1

some people just dont know how to behave!they have inferiority complex and takes it out on people.my advice is , you confront him. tell him that you are only trying to be friends with him and that his stupid comments are hurting you. tell him to shape up or ship out. if he doesnt change then just leave him.he is not worth your time and charity.

Answer 2

some people just don't know how to act. You should definitely not care about him because you don't need a friend who will insult u and be like that. Just stay away from him and pretend he isn't there. Ignore his insults cuz if u react he'll prob. do it even more. hope i can help!!!! =D

Answer 3

some guys act like that it the way of flutation, he a meniack to me i don't know about him byt kick him to the crave bye tell him the truth he can't say.