im worried about not havin any frends wen i move, but i make frends pretty easily now...should i be worried? and plus im kinda hot..idk if i should be worried.. please let me know wut u think..well thanks...luv ya!!
2006-07-28 13:43:23 · 5 answers · asked by Liz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
last year in august, my dad recieved a job offer...i felt exactly like you, trust me. i was soooo nervous and on the first day of school, i felt kind of intimadated...
my advice for you would be for the first few minutes, sit back and observe the different groups...then, at lunch, sit down with the group that you think you will be most comfortable with.
don't act like someone else...that is probably the worst thing you do...act like yourself...ask some questions and get to know them
ask someone/or some people to see a movie with you...that is the easiest way to get together at first...because you just sit there and laugh or cry...it doesn't involve tlaking which can make you nervous because you wonder if you are saying the right thing.....
also, on my first day, i came home crying...not because every1 was mean, but because i was over-whelmed...do not think crying on your first day is unusual...it is perfectly normal and it happens to almost everyone....
i was very nervous on my first day at school, but now i love my new home and my new friends...
also, try to be nice and polite to everyone because that will make you more approachable...
also, act and dress for the group you want to be with. For example, i fyou want to belong to the popular group, dress preppy and neat and act like there is nothing better than yourself
for example, i wanted to be popular, soi wore my best clothes, was nice to the popular kids, and acted stuck-up...but, do not be mean...
I hope you love your new home and school and friends..i wish you the best of luck, but just remember there are millions of poeple thinking the same thing as you...so, it is not as if you are the only nervous "mover" on the earth...Good Luck!!!
oh! also, join clubs and sports teams...it is a great way to meet lots of people...
2006-07-28 13:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 3⤋
If you say you make friends easily, I don't think you have anything to be worried about. Join some clubs or something when you get to your new destination. Keep in touch through email with your old friends.
2006-07-28 20:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if ur hot and make friends easily you will have a lot of dudes as friends don't worry =D
2006-07-28 20:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by loveyou:]<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your first friends when you move are usually your neighbors. try to make a good first impression and you should do good. then you can make more friends through work or the gym or clubs or even school.
2006-07-28 20:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by enjoylife! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be worried !! theres nothing to be concerned about if youre pretty, trust me
2006-07-28 20:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Crissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋