Please, don't be offended. I'm just curious.
At 21, I'm not a parent and don't plan on becoming one anytime soon. But much too often I see parents who can't seem to relate to their children in a way that is not angry, domineering or worrisome. And I can't help but wonder if those people don't really want to be parents. Most children are unplanned, so I think at least some parents view their children as a monkey wrench thrown into their freedom filled youth. There's also post partum depression, child abuse, neglect and a whole host of other things that make me question whether all parents truly want their children. And I would feel so guilty if I became one of those parents who didn't.
2006-07-28 13:43:22 · 8 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honestly I have no regrets! I became a parent at 16 years old my daughter is now 19 and I'm 36 and I wouldn't change having her for the world! I'm a mother of five and soon to be grandmother in November and I love each and every one of my kids !!!! it was real hard sometimes ya know? staying up late at night with the babies when they were hungry or sick but as the years passed by I learned to accept the decisions that I made in life and give up being young and support these wonderful human beings that God has blessed me to bring in this world!!! Now they are ages 19,18 ,16,15,and 13 And they are the reasons I awake each day!!!! If you have the heart to take care of your children God will bless you to be able to earn the rightful title of a Parent!!! And the reward is you will find that your children will become adults and they will help take care of You!!!!
2006-07-28 13:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by cocoa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People should not have children if they aren't prepared to do it. Having a child is a 24-7 joy for at least the next 18 years but then its not over yet. They have college need help and are a blessing even when they are grown. They are there to help you should you ever need them. I love children and I can't ever think of what it would be to not have had them. You have ups and downs but that is natural. If you can survive their teenage years it a breeze.
2006-07-28 14:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by Linda Lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not ever remorseful about having my daughter who's now 2yrs previous, i will admit that is amazingly demanding and takes over your existence.on the basic situations I have ignored stupid such issues as being waiting to leave the homestead actual, bypass clothing procuring, merely relax and watch the television and so on, yet as I say they're stupid issues that receives better accessible to do at the same time as shes older. I have had some undesirable information presently, the second one baby i'm carrrying in the present day has no heartbeat - ignored miscarriage,I were given into the twelfth week of being pregnant and am waiting for my body to obviously miscarry. Me and my hubby are devastated, i ought to gladly supply up those stupid issues I used to take exhilaration in perpetually if it meant i ought to have this toddler. It this stuff in existence that make you realsie whats somewhat major and that i treasure my daughter a million situations better now - what if I ever misplaced her or under no circumstances even had her in my existence? i will merely say that being a figure differences your attitude and my merely favor now ought to be to verify my daughter advance up healthful, i do not care about the trivial issues and the better I conflict to be sure that occurs the better i recognize she'll benefit from what we positioned into her. i will't describe the love you experience for this tiny individual you created - and under no circumstances something will ever come on the threshold of it!
2016-11-26 21:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My children are the best things that ever happened to me. I do not for a moment, even a second, regret having them.
2006-07-28 14:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by ladyangelovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never regretted having my children if they were not here god only knows where i would be
2006-07-28 13:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by mertzball71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children are wonderful no regrets.
2006-07-28 13:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom does say she regrets having me. My father is not even with me. I don't know about anybody else. But I think people should think carefully about their decitions to have kids, it is not easy, but its not their kids fault.
2006-07-28 13:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i have four and i have never regreted having them
2006-07-28 13:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by libby71763 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋