2006-07-28 13:15:16 · 23 answers · asked by goturdude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Think about his heart. Do you know him enough to say that he is a good person? I find guys, the most sensible, the kindest, the most experienced with women are the most stupid sometimes when they are even dealing and tallking to the woman they really love. I guess it is nice to learn to forget and not take things seriously, but if you feel that it may be too much and it is affecting your mood and confidence think about being at a place where you dont feel that way.
2006-07-28 15:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by iluvsuperman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he's a jerk off.. but if u don't say anything about it then how is he suppose to know that what he says hurs u?? Guys r not mind readers there just slow..... And if this is happening a lil to often why r u still putting up w/it..
doesn't ur happiness count?? When u can answer that then u'll know what to do.. which is dump his sorry a$$.... what u need is some self esteem...
2006-07-28 20:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's trying to control you and establish dominance. By tearing down your self esteem (which he knows is working because you take it and stay with him) he's beating you down into submission, making him feel like the Big Man. If a guy cares about you, he doesn't WANT to hurt you. Period.
2006-07-28 20:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by Shadycat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him no guy should make u feel that way i left my boyfriend cuz he cheated on me and it hurts but after a while u will be glad u did it, he isnt werth u r love hes just a jack*** so u can take my advice or u can fallow u r gut!! good luck !!!!
2006-07-28 20:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just his intention , to hurt you! It'll start this way today and end up hitting you tommorrow! He is just a boyfriend, leave, don't take that mess!
2006-07-28 20:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by nene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him that what he says hurts you, maybe he does not realize that. If he still continue after that, then he does not care about you, leave him, or stay and keep getting hurt.
2006-07-28 20:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE IS HURTING YOU WITH WHAT HE SAYS THEN HE IS NOT THE ONE FOR YOU. WHEN SOMEONE REALLY CARES ABOUT A PERSON THE LAST THING THEY WILL DO IS HURT YOU WITH WORDS OR OTHERWISE. MOVE ON
2006-07-28 20:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause he don't give a **** about you. Leave him Im pretty sure you are a good, nice looking female and there are guys out there that are willing to treat you like you want and need to be treated.
2006-07-28 20:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Power, I suspect. To belittle you, to hurt you, is his way of trying to control the relationship. To control you. It's classic building himself up, by tearing you down.
2006-07-28 20:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys hurt women because they are allowed to dump him he is not worth the energy it takes to type one sentence
there are nice guys out there but dont be a doormat
2006-07-28 20:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by mertzball71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋