see I been getting mixed signal my long time friend that lives in colorado and i live in alaska I've stayed in touch with her for 6 years met her while she was on vacation here went out fell in love. she went back talked on phone for a year and a half then she came to alaska and moved in with me she missed her family so went back after 4 months. I understood but real sad. we talk and talk on the phone again so this may I went down to colorado because I missed her so much!!! for 18 days came back to alaska and things are not the same all this time. she talk to me a couple of times but now I really feel 2 distant. what do you people think somebody want to chat about long distant relationships?
2006-07-28 13:01:59 · 14 answers · asked by positivesk8ter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We broke up after a year. We have know each other for seven years, and he is still my very best friend. Good luck!
2006-07-28 13:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by churppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long distance relationship will only work if you cannot possibly see yourselves without each other, and you both will do WHATEVER it takes to be together.
And I mean willing to do ANYTHING just to be together.
My hubby and I both sold all we owned, including homes, and moved over 800 miles to a place near the center of where we each lived. We ended up spending 3 years living on opposite sides of the US/CAN border, and eventually I was able to live in Canada with him. Our kids all live 700-1200 miles away from us. And neither of us regrets one bit of it!!
That is the kind of commitment you have to have to make it work.
2006-07-28 13:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend has a relationship with someone in England. They been boyfriend-girlfriend for some time and things seem to be okay. I don't know if it will work out once they are physically together but I say it's worth a try.
2006-07-28 13:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Keebler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships can work only if the both of you want it to, i had a long distance relationship that ended up in marriage, but be very careful, any body who gets homesick after 4 months, and rather be with her family not the person she loves may not love you as much as you think, if somebody is in a strong relationship regardlessof how long and that person loves someone enough they will stick with that person, even if it means being without their family, be careful and goodluck
2006-07-28 13:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Quasar1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, they can work, but they take a lot of phone talking, time and travel money
unfortunately, it's hard b/c if you end up living together, it's not the same as before. life isn't the weekend vacations it used to be.
if it's meant to be, you will work it out somehow.
2006-07-28 13:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by Becky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was love .. ther would have been a move with one partner or the other
to live long distance for 6 years ? that is friendship
2006-07-28 13:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance doesn't work unless you can see yourselves being together at some point in the near future. As you tried it and it didnt work i would say end it.
2006-07-28 13:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just based on the question (i didn't read the details right offhand. i'm rather feverish and trying to rush through this! lol) i have been in relationships long distance...however, i am not with any of them now...so whether it lasts depends on you guys..and God of course. if He wants you two together.
2006-07-28 13:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i did a l/d (long distance) with my ex tyler and i moved to a new school and i liked this other guy and liked hanging out with him and so i told tyler and then he confessed of cheating on me so i dumped him after 3 months!
2006-07-28 13:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by Shayla <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah but you'll need a in town girlfriend also.
2006-07-28 13:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by ccccccc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋