because a friend told me dat she saw him at the mall wit another girl buyin her clothes
2006-07-28 12:50:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldnt go by hear say. Ask him give him a chance to explain. Do some investigating if it turns out to be true then id say move on
2006-07-28 12:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by krayzeman32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like this, it depends on how long you've been together. If you put alot of time,time meaning years and he's never done anything b4 and he gives a good explination then maybe it would be worth it to try to stick it out. Thats only if you realy love him. Think about wich pain would be greater, the hurt of something your girl TOLD u cuz u didn't see it urself or the hurt of getting over a broken heart again because of something u heard. Think about it. I hope it works out for you.
2006-07-28 12:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to him about it, but say that you saw them at the mall. If he knows its a friend who told you then he might try and say she was lying and you would have no way to tell. If he has been cheating them drop him straight away.
2006-07-28 12:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of things to consider here! Is the friend trustworthy and reliable?Do you trust her to trust her gut instinct? You know him as a person,what do you think? Did he tell you about his outing or did you have to ask him?If you have not asked, ask him about his little trip he may just tell you what the truth is. Go with what your gut tells you. Don't stand for dumb stuff,life is to short for that.
2006-07-28 12:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by nene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'd ask him about it but do not accuse him of anything, it could be a lie to get you guys to break up, or maybe your friend is jealous, maybe it wasn't even him, she could have been a relative...but if he admits to it, then leave, he'll probably do it again if you allow it to go on, best of luck and hope it wasn't him
2006-07-28 12:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by Cleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was you i would talk to him and then if he lies you should break up wit him but if he tell the truth about him taking another girl somewere i would think about it
2006-07-28 13:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by williams_maneera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should never go by what another person says. Ask him about it. It could be anything.
2006-07-28 12:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not before confrontin hmi about it...don't jus break him wit himm giv him a chance to tell u..if he don't confront him n ask him wat's up
2006-07-28 12:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by Am so Curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wait and ask him what going on then decide what to do it may be a reason why he was there.
2006-07-28 12:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u believe ur friend she probably said that becuz she wants more time with u and she wants u to like her more thats called a ***** and i hate friends like that
2006-07-28 12:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by SeeKer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋