i was wondering? has anyone had your sister sleeping with your husband? what would you do?
2006-07-28 12:43:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OHMYGOSH! How terriable! I hope your not actually going through something like that. What a terrible betrayal from the two people you love the most!
2006-07-28 12:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez.....Talk to your sister first. As a sibling, she should have known that there are boundaries, and she DEFINITELY crossed it! Secondly, get marital counseling and independently, emotional counseling for yourself. You have been deeply betrayed by a family member and a spouse, and you need the time and space to deal with it. Take time by yourself--or with a truly trusted friend--to deal with the anger and pain of the situation, then ask yourself what you want to do. Is there a child or children in the situation? Make custody arrangements, and leave the anger out of it. Get tested for STDs. If he slept with your sister, she may not have been the only one. And most importantly, look in the mirror and say each day, "I am worth MORE than this situation. I am a decent, good person, and I love what I see in the mirror." It may sound crazy, but it helps. Good luck.
2006-07-28 12:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by Judy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce my husband and disown my sister. Neither had respect for you. And also make sure the entire family knows what they both did, it might hurt, but they will be the ones that are looked down upon.
2006-07-28 12:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately NO!! but if my sister did some bs like that 2 me i'd have to lay the smack down on her a$$... then a double smack down on his a$$ and then put all his stuff in the dumpster, change the locks and kick his no good sorry a$$ out.. divorce and alimony would be next.. i probably would never speak to my sister again...
2006-07-28 12:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sisters are forever...they always come before a man...I would try to talk with her, (yes I would be mad and hurt as H*ell.) but she is my blood and that's something that never changes...But if they both don't care or try to stay together, then kick the husband to the curb...but if she eventually comes around try to have it in your heart to forgive her..(obviously she has some mental issues ) because you don't hurt someone like that if you love them...Be the bigger person!!!Good luck..put it in gods hands
2006-07-28 12:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by AT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's fault was it? If it was your sister's tell your parents. If it was your husband's get a divorce, unless your sister is pregnant.
2006-07-28 12:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Phantom A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your sister and find out what's up with her - then kick your husband out! Blood is thicker than water....
2006-07-28 12:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the **** out of him. Never talk to my sister and then divorce his sorry ***. There is no exscuse for that kind of behavior.
2006-07-28 12:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kick him out for sure but your sister is blood so good luck with her
2006-07-28 12:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Big D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
havent been through it but i say you should beat the F*** out of both of them. beat him until hes in the hosptial begging for life and then serve him with divorce papers. beat your sister until she dosen't realize who she is anymore and them beat her some more until she does.
2006-07-28 12:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋