my boyfriend lied and i cought him at another gurls house gettin ready to kiss her when i came in he was liek howed u get here and i told him his friend ratted him out. then i stopped talkin to him then he calle d me and then wetalked and i relized i still like him but i dont want him to do it again wat should i do?????????
2006-07-28 12:39:37 · 24 answers · asked by Destiny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Trust your gut... Would he have told you if you wouldn't have caught him cheating on you? How many times has he done it already? Life is too short to constantly worry about wether or not he is cheating on you or not... Too many fish in the sea for all that nonsense!!! But someone once told me once a cheater always a cheater.. I thought I would give my ex a second chance and I did, but I always had this thought in the back of my head with my gut feeling and I was put thru it all again.. so basically it is a gut thing.. trust your gut... good luck
2006-07-28 12:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
unfortunately, you don't have any control over what he does. You can't control other people, only the situation.
If you have the option of being with him ALL THE TIME that might prevent him from cheating on you again. But the likely hood of that is very slim.
So, you can make sure he never cheats on you again. But only by removing yourself from the picture.
Then some one else will be putting up with his misdeeds.
2006-07-28 12:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by Heathery Lane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the old saying goes..."Once a cheater,Always a cheater."
What makes you think that he isn't going to do it again?I know that you are going to have to build up the trust between him and you.You cant just take him back as if nothing happen.Think about it long and hard and let him see that he did something wrong and that he hurt you.Don't let him try and talk you into getting back together and him happening to do something else like this.Then what?You will be more in love with him and let him do this over and over again.No woman needs this to happen to her.She deserves the right to be treated right and get the respect she deserves.Good Luck...
2006-07-28 12:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by ~Devilz~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you still like him, he still has his good qualities that he had before you caught him, and you'll always have good memories of him. But he'll also do it again if you give him another chance, so now is the time to leave.
2006-07-28 12:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must be young right? u need to know this ok....the guy u mite like right now, IS NOT the only guy in the world. and if hes low enuf to cheat on u, than u will DEFINITLEY find somone who cares for u more and appreciates u. (and who doesnt cheat on u) dont stay with im because u "like" him. because no matter wot he says, i can guarantee u, he will do it again. PLEASE take my advice.
2006-07-28 12:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get back together with him I mean you don't even know he cheated on you. You only know he was going to cheat on you. And just the once. I think you should just stick it out and make yourself miserable.
2006-07-28 12:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Gabriel, dump the cheater (even if you cannot prove he cheated, you saw him trying to kiss someone else) I'm sure you will get someone who deserves you
2006-07-28 12:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once shame on u twice same on me. give him anohter chance but let him no next time its over no matter what. Life is to short to be stuck with a cheater
2006-07-28 12:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by krayzeman32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what it feels like to have you're heartbroken by someone you never thought could. but in all honesty you really have to think about if the bad parts realationship are worth going through for the happy parts.
2006-07-28 12:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt break up with him on a rumor. you caught him in the act. if i caught my girl bout to kiss a guy..she wouldnt have a chance in h*&^ of ever coming around me again much less datin me again. you did the right thing
2006-07-28 12:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by johdanjon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋