I"m so sorry for you...I know a few friends who are in the same situation as you are. It sounds easy to tell someone to just leave the person but both of my friends are older and not in good health...and havent worked in years. They would not be able to support themselves if a divorce occurred. If that is not the case with you, then definitely get out before you can't...If it is the case, go see a counselor and try to get him to go along with!
2006-07-28 12:48:26
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answered by sj_amicus 3
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Either you stay in this marriage or you contact a divorce atty. Divorce courts will favor you in all aspects unless youve been convicted of either drug or child abuse. There is no need to stay in a mentally abusive marriage nowadays, when there are so many options available to you. Good luck
2006-07-28 19:44:03
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answered by Arthur W 7
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I have a question for you......why are you still there? The next time he's away....put his stuff in a trash bag and hand it to him when he gets back. What are you and your children getting from this so called relationship?
***see a lawyer for child support.
2006-07-28 19:43:23
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answered by daljack -a girl 7
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Check out the following web-site. It can answer your questions better than I can. It will also give you a "bird's eye" view of a guy's psyche.
http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com/
Good luck
2006-07-28 19:41:07
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answered by hoyhoydc 3
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Dump is lazy freaking a$$ for someone that has a genuine love for you.
Easier said than done, I know.....believe me....but you don't need to be treated that way.
2006-07-28 19:41:35
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answered by Anonymous
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ok get rid of the lazy ****** do something wonderful for yourself tell him to get off his fat *** and take care of it then run out the door and don't look back good luck sweetie
2006-07-28 19:47:17
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answered by daack7 4
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Be careful...it sounds like he might be cheating. I would do some checking. Good luck.
2006-07-28 19:42:43
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answered by carolscreation 4
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don't take it anymore say its your family or get out either way you will know you stood up for you
2006-07-28 19:47:53
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answered by twistedsingle 4
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Leave!
2006-07-28 20:04:24
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answered by angel 4
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just take your kids and go....
2006-07-28 20:26:43
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answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6
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