im having a problem with premature ejaculation and dont know how to solve it. no matter what i try when i have sex with my wife i always get off before her. can anyone help
2006-07-28 12:34:01 · 12 answers · asked by Big D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FOREPLAY,FOREPLAY,FOREPLAY for her only
Get her hot and ready and then give it to her.
My husband suggest, jack off before having sex with your wife and then about fifteen to thirty minutes later give her what she needs. My husband said that it takes longer to get an ejaculation the second time around.
Good Luck and stay up longer
2006-07-28 13:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are some remedies that are temporary while you are having sex. Go to a porno shop or even get on-line with places like www.carolwright.com and check them out. I hope this helps.
There is a show on TV an Sunday nights caled "sex talk with Sue" or it may be "talk sex with sue" you might check that out. I also believe that she has a web site. Maybe she could help. I think that show may be on "O" network.
2006-07-28 12:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Linda L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried foreplay a little longer? Try bringing yourself to the 'edge' then stopping altogether. Also get your wife a mini vibrator..that just might be the trick! Lots of luck!
2006-07-28 12:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a "bullet out of the chamber" about 30 minutes before. Good luck!
2006-07-28 12:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reduce your "battle load" about 20 minutes prior to the decisive engagement. Didn't you ever watch "There's something about MAry"?
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Good luck
2006-07-28 12:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, its sweet you get over excited. Shows how much u love ur wife.
2006-07-28 12:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by Karen W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time getting her off first - after she's had one or two orgasms, plug in and go town - it won't matter when you get off then!!
Good Luck, Bra!
Aloha!
2006-07-28 12:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are tons of sex therapists that can help you. I'm just someone playing around on YA....I'm sure you don't want my opinion on something that important.
2006-07-28 12:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try masturbating more frequently. It will make it take longer for you to ejaculate.
2006-07-28 12:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what ever you have to to get her off first. Then have a little more fun.
2006-07-28 12:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by mt92501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋