I was told that if 2 femmes get together when one or both is seeing opposite sex that it is really not call cheating. Well, I just recntly got married and been bi-sexually active since 21. What would you do? I still have thoughts of being cool with other femmes like me and don't really think to have sexual fun with. BUt sometime it puts a light bulb above my head telling me that don't forget who and what you really are! Why is it hard to turn that bulb out for good?
2006-07-28 12:29:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
Someone I know is bi and married. The spouse knows and accepts it. She has a very discreet relationship with some one and he knows and accepts. He is not part of the relationship. It works for them because bisexuality has not colored their life and was never a secret, It would be cheating if it were a secret.
2006-07-28 15:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm bisexual and married. I sometimes really want to feel a woman's flesh because all I feel is a man, and a man is so different both in bed and emotionally and physically that its incomparable. Once you taste the fruit of both sides you cannot stop lusting. But marriage is a sacred institution and you're betraying the only person you have that truly loves you and is there for you and shares everything of yours. I simply resort to fantasies and fun with toys and movies since there's nothing I can do either. If you want to protect the relationship you have, please don't ruin it. Not every spouse is open minded, and I doubt your man would like you share you.
PS If HE is open minded, he might be into watching you have sex with a woman. If he feels included he might not be against it. If you wouldn't mind a threesome and being sexually open that's cool. Hide NOTHING from him. Don't make it seem like you are sick of him.
2006-07-28 12:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that being with anyone besides the person you married is cheating - wether it's someone of the same sex or of the opposite sex.
So, it's wrong because it's cheating.
2006-07-28 12:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by keengrrl76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told the moon was made of cheese, and no-one has really PROVEN it wrong ! I think bi is cool, and theres absolutely NO CHANCE of getting anything from other people who also don't conform to that old fashioned monogamy fairytale.
2006-07-28 15:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being bi-sexual is totally horrid. if God wanted you that way, he'll have given you a dick too! now that you are married, you need to fight the demons that pull you towards such obscene, degrading and immoral acts. be faithful to your partner. is he bisexual too?
2006-07-28 12:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by durhotimitoyea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if you enjoy something your brain will constantly be longing for the "high" it got off of it.
2006-07-28 12:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by nodreamsnomusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋