Yes! I consider myself to be good-looking (this isn't an insecurity issue), but can't deny that my husband is better looking. Usually guys don't get hit on that much.... he DOES even when we are out together. Let's face it. we live in a society with an extreme focus on women's appearance and having a trophy wife is a key tenet in the materialistic values that we abide by. Without making any more generalizations and sounding too vague, my question is:
what do I do? I should be wary, right? Is the woman supposed to be the more attractive one?
btw- I don't fear that my husband will leave me and we love eachother alot. I'm hoping to NOT get alot of the cliche 'love is blind', 'you love each other for inner worth' answers.
2006-07-28 12:28:23 · 11 answers · asked by Sassy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Relax, take a deep breath - and take this fact as a compliment! He's with you, doesn't plan on leaving you - and you have all these women jealous of you!
Aloha!
2006-07-28 12:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, your not alone! My husband is really good looking too! that was one of the things that grabbed my attention when I had met him! Other ladies check him out all the time when were together, at work, even at my work!
I just know that I always have to stay two steps ahead of the game to keep my man happy! And they love us thats why they married us! just remember a simple frase "what you wont do she will"
Please your man to the fullest and always give him what he wants and he has no room to want anything else!
2006-07-28 19:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you thinking about this 6th grade stuff? If more people here say the husband is not supposed to be more attractive one are you going to leave? If you're happy and he's happy and you love each other who gives a c*** who's the hottest? There are way more important things to think about.
2006-07-28 19:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have more faith in your husband, dear one. Has he given you any reason to think he wants to stray? Does he act naturally around those women who fancy him, or act shy or embarassed? Or, does he play into the game, and admire back?
Do you really want to be watching your back? Try the faith thing. You life will be happier for it.
2006-07-28 19:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how he handles it! If he can accept the compliments and keep on going, it's okay. If he handles it in a way that casuses you to be uncomfortable, that could be a problem. If you worry about his going astray, that is not good.
2006-07-28 19:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by Cara Beth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its more acceptable in our society when the girl is hotter than the guy...i would hate if my husband/bf was hotter than me...cuz girls these days are scandalous..and im pretty sure they are talkin mad trash about how he's too good for u...and i dont care if u trust ur husband u should always be aware because crap happens...and even the best of us fall...
2006-07-28 19:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by zooey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out the following web-site. It can answer your questions better than I can. It will also give you a "bird's eye" view of a guy's psyche.
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Good luck
2006-07-28 19:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey stop worrying. it is good to have someone that is admired by others... especially when he goes home every night with you. let those girls start the engine... and you drive the car.
2006-07-28 19:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just stoped by to tell you whatever !!!!! trust me your husband isnt as hot as you think .. he might cheat on you with another dude but trust me he is lucky to have you .. you might wana get your eyes checked out ... and who cares if he is get a life and get over yourself .. thanks for the points ugly
2006-07-28 19:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too sure, temptations can be a devils play toy!
2006-07-28 19:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by Binky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋