i cheated on my husband in febuary.itold him about it, ya he was mad but we were going to work it out.although i was the one who cheated,i feel as though he gave me every reason to. he was staying out all night and then the night we had plans to do something he'd eather break them,leave me with his buddys girlfriend,or we would just stay home all night.we never go out the 2 of us. we have been married for almost 9 years.we have 2 wonderful children together and i dont want to hurt them.but he still hasn't changed.i think that i'm ok looking so i dont see why hed be ashamed to be seen with me. is it time to wake up and realize that it is over? what would you do?
2006-07-28 12:18:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is never any really good reason to cheat on someone else, especially if its revenge motivated. Thats what this sound like. Now, no matter what you have to live forever with that fact. But thats water under the bridge now. Now you have to decide what are you willing to put up with and what do you really want? Think really hard about it so you dont end up making 2 mistakes. Get him into marriage counseling if necessary, because hes proven he cant change by himself. If you want something, take a risk, if you want something bad enough youre willing to risk it all. Afterall, its not having what you want, but wanting what you have! Good luck
2006-07-28 12:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the reason you told him because you are wanting his attention. Apparently it didn't do any good. And probably he is cheating on you as well. Sit down and talk to him and be honest. Divorce is a very nasty thing .
2006-07-28 12:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by rose_like_no_other 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get counselling if its worth it.have you tried talking to him?
You know...two wrongs dont make a right.You dont want to hurt the children but you already did when you cheated on their daddy.
2006-07-28 12:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your spouse exactly what you have told us. Perhaps he doesn't truly realize his actions. Marriage counseling might also be a possibility, especially if there are children involved.
2006-07-28 12:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Good luck
2006-07-28 12:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl sounds like to me that he may be cheating on you.I know
you don't want to hurt your kids but sounds like it's time to move
on with your life.
2006-07-28 12:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by vampire lover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-28 12:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like me 7 years ago, if u can afford it, sounds like you need to move on..........
2006-07-28 12:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Angie0992002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋