MY BOYFRIEND TALKS ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH OTHER WOMEN AND THAT MAKES ME WONDER IF HE WOULD EVER CHEAT ON ME. WOULD HE EVER AVT ON THOSE THOUGHTS ABOUT OTHER WOMEN? AND WHAT SOULD I DO.
2006-07-28 12:16:06 · 14 answers · asked by sunshine girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should DO nothing. You should explore his fantasies more to see if there is anything that would lead you to believe he would cheat. I would bet it's more fantasy than reality. Guys have fantasies about other women, even when they're married. It means nothing 99%+ of the time. He wouldn't be telling you about them if he was cheating. Fantasy is fantasy and reality is reality. Don't confuse the 2, we don't.
2006-07-28 12:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, your best bet is to turn off your capslock.
Now onto the real issues.
It could be he is a really honest guy, and has fantasies about threesomes. Alot of couples are swingers, and have third parties involved or switch partners, and still have a loving caring relationship. He could be one of those people. Talk to him if about what you think about it, and explain your comfortability zones.
Its highly unlikely some that intends to cheat, would come out and talk about it. He is most likely trying to get you to pry into his thoughts, so he doesn't have to come out and say them on his own.
2006-07-28 12:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wrote this to someone else a few minutes ago.
Girl, cheating begins in the heart and mind if he is thinking about it 9 times out of 10 he will do it.
2006-07-28 12:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's getting bored. Spice it up a little! Do you have a girlfriend that would be willing to participate in a 3-some?
2006-07-28 12:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be extremely worried. i won't lie-- i would be awfully scared of him cheating on me too. you really need to talk too him. but no man talks about having sex with ANOTHER women, ever. i don't think he has YOU nor you and him @ best interest in his heart. i think you need to move on and find someone better. but you should talk too him first. but yeah, that really worries me. good luck though sweetie!!
2006-07-28 12:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by jetters007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask him why he talks like that... what if you started saying those things to him?
Maybe he's saying it to gauge your reaction - there-by letting him know how you would react if he actually did cheat on you?
Talk to him!
Aloha!
2006-07-28 12:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe
who knows we are not there with you
but I would boil water late at nite just to give him a warning that you are onto him!
burnt weiner means no cheating
2006-07-28 12:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the context my dear. Your question is slanted, and it's unclear if he's trying to communicate himself to you based on his experiences, or if he's just a pig.
2006-07-28 12:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well fi ur bf is talking about having sex with other women there must b some reason. are u satifying him?
2006-07-28 12:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very unlikely, it's the quite ones you need to watch for.
2006-07-28 12:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋