what causes a normal 27 year old guy to go limp? he said he never had that problem before and than something about me being married and he couldn't do it cause he still loves me, is that even possible? or is this just b.s. because he was embarassed he couldn't perform? please only serious answers. thanks much.
2006-07-28 12:11:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it happens
2006-07-28 12:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cause is usually anxiety. It will get worse if you make an issue about it. The solution is to move on to non-penetrative play. You can have a lot of fun with each other without the man being erect.
Once the anxiety has gone, the problem will go away.
2006-07-28 12:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Song2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time I have had that problem is when I had a lot of stress and pressing issues on my mind. You both should go out somewhere private and away from it all, have a couple glasses of wine and tell him to let you in on what is going on. Good luck!
2006-07-28 12:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by ur_ave_joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he was just nervous! Maybe you should ease up on him a little bit. I know you are frustrated beacuse you didn't get yours, but sit down with him and really find out what it was. Because guys won't ever tell you the whole truth. Just make him feel comfortable enough to comfide in you.
2006-07-28 12:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by bredambrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could happen for any reason. Anything that is on his mind could definitely effect the way that thing works. Does it happen all the time or did it just happen once and why are youhaving sex with him if you are married to someone else? I'd say he just has better character than you do.
2006-07-28 12:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was a stressful situation.. Sometimes high pressure situations can casue men to loose it..... Be cool about it dont press the issue it could make it worse
2006-07-28 12:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by what do you think? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're nailing a guy you aren't married to? Maybe he's going limp because he's scared of your hubby?
2006-07-28 12:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO dear ti happens some times but dont worry he can come over it. You just need to make him more frank than before in fornt of you.
2006-07-28 12:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by punit b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand, are you married to him, or are you cheating on your husband with him? Obviously he is uncomfortable for some reason. Best talk it out with him some more. Or if you can't be bothered, just find another boy toy.
2006-07-28 12:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by my brain hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol!
2006-07-28 12:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His guilty conscious got the best of him and he couldn't go through with it. Good for him!
2006-07-28 12:19:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋