i have a live in man he told me in november that he is not in love with me im sorta over that but we still live together and i wont move i told him that he has until sept 1 to make up his mind if we are boyfriend and girlfriend or roomates if we are roomates then bills will go three ways me/ him and his 18 yr old daughter my hope is i can wait till sept 1 for his answer i wait on him hand and foot i do all the house work mowing etc and i will not move out just want to move on for physical reasons him and i have not been intimate for a long time he tries and trust me i want to it is just well i want an answer first what can i do when he makes advances to me without knowing also he shows me no affection at all
2006-07-28 12:05:30 · 7 answers · asked by thunder_18431 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why on earth did you give him till September, sounds like when he told you he did not love you anymore, he made his decission.
Go to The both of them and tell them you changed your mind, that the begining of Aug. that all the bills are to be split 3 ways, along with the household duties. the person that doesn't agree with this needs to move.
Move on with your life and let them move on with theres, you do not need someone who doesnt love you in your life, you deserve better than that.
Stay strong and dont give into him, it will only give him what he wants
2006-07-28 12:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I'd tell him, "look I can't wait for you to decide if we are roomates or boyfriend/girlfriend, you still have until sept 1 to make up YOUR mind but until you tell me otherwise I am considering us roomates, which means the chores around here are going to have to be split equally, as are the finances" Stop doing things for him, make him take care of himself and make his 18 year old pick up after herself, what are you their maid? You are being used.
2006-07-28 12:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by arvecar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wait on him hand and foot? STOP IT!!!!!! why would he want to move....he has a slave for all things but sex......and if he says room mates....then go have a nothing fling, and bring them home.....and introduce him to your room mate.....and let him wish them a good morning next day.......better yet, don't ahve a fling, jsut sleep in the same bed....and get a good male friend to help you out with this......things might change rapidly.....for better or worse
2006-07-28 12:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to dump him!!!!!!!What are you putting yourself through all that for anyway? He sounds like he is just using you. You deserve better! Stand up for your self and get out asap. Living together is wrong anyway in the sight of God.
2006-07-28 12:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by rose_like_no_other 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. Why on earth are you still there? Why do you still want him to be your "boyfriend"? Look, if all you want out of life is second best, that's all your ever going to get.
2006-07-28 12:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and stop wasting time on him. There's more to life than just him.
2006-07-28 12:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its over, end it now!
2006-07-28 12:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by pete cochino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋