after leaving me for my friend and living with her for over 3 years they break up and now he's all I've always loved you. what is the story with that? why is it that they think tat whenever thay are finished having thier fun that they can come home and all is just as it was before they left in the first place with someone else.
2006-07-28 12:01:57 · 15 answers · asked by vexon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey wake up girl! Your husband leaves you for someone else, lives with this other person for over three years and now its all over with her, he wants to coming running back to you. He's only wanting back cos he thinks your the mug who will take him in and he's playing on your emotions to gain entry.
Remember he will be afraid of being alone with no -one to show him any love and affection and boost his ego anymore since he and his ex broke up, so what does he do? yes come to you and say "I've always loved you" Yeah sure, he really loved and respected you that much he left!
If you weren't good enough for him the first time round what makes you think it could be any different this time? The guys a jerk and only wants to use you. Well you know what they say 'for every doormat there's a set of feet willing to wipe off it'
You've managed to live without hm for over three years, remember there is a life out there without him, and you deserve better. Be strong and don't fall for this user.
2006-07-28 21:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because for so long we let them. We are always there no matter what and they believe that we will always be there. If you gave him any idea that you would wait then it is your own fault that he is that way, if you did not then you just need to tell him that he was the fool and that you have moved on with your life. Why would you want someone that did that in the first place. What a jerk. You deserve better!!!
2006-07-28 19:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by peachesgirl1212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably felt that way about a minute after he left but it was too late........from experience both parties are very rarely happy after the split. My husband and I parted after 14 years, had a couple of relationships and after fighting for 3 1/2 years got back together.....we remarried 4 years after breaking up....now things are better than ever. We don't take each other for granted, however we put God as number one in our lives and our relationship as number 2, everything else comes after that!!
2006-07-28 19:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by like to help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men dont think logically like women. They act without thought before or afterwards. They think that whatever they do is up to them and never worry about who they hurt in the process. When things fall apart, and they always do, men return to the point just before they started their adventure. Men think that once they return to that point, all is forgiven, forgotten, and the women will take them back with open arms. Most women see thru this macho crap and never take the guy back but there are always exceptions to everything. Hopefully you dont take him back, no woman deserves a guy like that. Good luck
2006-07-28 19:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants back in and is trying everything to get you to take him back. He thinks that without him, you have no life and cannot function and he can't stand the thought that he could possibly be wrong about that.
2006-07-28 19:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a chancer, he needs to be looked after and he dosent want to be on his own, and he thinks you will come running. Tell him to go back to his mother, the only woman who will really tolerate such behaviour!
2006-07-28 19:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 21 yrs before my husband left me. I see him more now than i ever did. Still wouldnt have him back for a million
ALL MEN WNAT WHAT THEY KNOW THEY CANT HAVE
2006-07-28 20:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as you don't let him, it won't be that way. Your the only one that can decide if it's going to be this way or not. If you let him, you know it will only be a matter of time, before he's off at it again...they do it, because women let them....
2006-07-28 19:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Good luck
2006-07-28 19:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are complete tools - sounds like your ex fits into this catagory!
Tell him to go pound salt.
Aloha!
2006-07-28 19:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋