hes soo hot and he always looks at me and i want him 2 like me what should i do hes soo nice and hooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooootttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt and nice and funny and i want to be his girl friend but hes a year older than me help hes my friend if that helps..??????????????????????????????
2006-07-28 12:00:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go jump off of a bridge
2006-07-28 12:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know sweety, I used to be like you. I had crushes on most people I encountered or had some sort of annual meeting; and when coming to deal with it, I found "I WAS USUALLY THE ONLY ONE DOING THE CHASING"
You won't lose a thing, if this guy doesn't respond to nothing. However, would you lose your self-respect if you finally get the chance to say 'hey, I like you!' and he turns around and tells you he's either seeing someone (would be worse if he didn't tell you and you found out later that he was - wouldn't it?) or that he's gay!
Is this really just a 'crush', or is there actually more to this?
Whatever happens, summer's almost over - you gonna confront him this year; or wait til summer's over and then give him all winter to think about it?
2006-07-28 19:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by bga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With some slow-moving guys you have to take more initiative, seems like you two are already bonding so begin to suggest activities that you guys could do together.
Just say why don't we go here, or do this, or see that. If he agrees, slowly ease into his personal space, at the proper times give him a touch on the shoulder or arm.
Maintain good eye contact. smile a lot. nod approvingly when he's talking.
He'll be all yours in no time at all..
2006-07-28 19:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for what meatsickles said there, because trust me, you do not want to do that, but anyways my ex-girlfriend and i just stopped going out and b4 that we were really good friends, and now, we are even better friends. my ex-girlfriend was 2 years younger than me, and we had a lot of fun for the time that we went out. the reason we broke up is because she is young, and doesn't want to have a real relationship right now!
2006-07-28 19:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Flame Alchemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you need to do is tell him how you feel. If he's your friend then you should be able to sit down and talk about your feelings with him. Who knows maybe he likes you as well. You will never know the outcome unless you act on your feelings!
2006-07-28 19:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, well my first advice is not to get your hopes too high. if it doesn't work out, then it won't be that big a fall. but of course lol, lets concentrate on the positive. just flirt with him, and if he is really that nice, then i say just tell him. tell him how you feel, and hopefully he'll feel the same way, or give it a chance. and that age diference is TINY.
good luck!!
2006-07-28 19:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he likes you you'll know. You can't make him like you it should come naturally. Continue being friends and when it's the right time you should tell him how you feel give it some time. Keep being friends and be there for him.
2006-07-28 19:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by sandysweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably need to spell it out for him that you like him and want to go out with him. If he's such a nice guy he will just be content in the "friend zone."
2006-07-28 19:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start doing stuff with him more. Talk. You might just have to come out and tell him you like him. Guys can be kinda slow and not pick up on that sort of thing
2006-07-28 19:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes looking at you he must like you OR you are hot looking to him. When he looks, smile at him. I think he wants to be a close friend to you. Good luck.
2006-07-28 19:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by sandman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know; guys are not psychic. Remember that actions will always speak louder then words, so make sure you too do something together and get his attention besides, what do you have to lose?
2006-07-28 19:06:13 · answer #11 · answered by "the Otter" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋